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37 weeks and my boyfriend just said

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brexitisamare · 24/03/2019 00:46

He will "smash my face in".

He's playing a game online downstairs, fine. But he was screaming at it and it woke me up so I text him asking him to please keep it down.

He text me back telling me to "fuck off".

So I turned the WiFi off (it's in our bedroom). Quite childish of me now I look back but I was absolutely furious at being woken up and told to fuck off when I hadn't actually done anything wrong.

He came banging up the stairs, punched the bedroom door and said "if you ever do that again I will smash this whole house up and I'll smash your face in".

And he turned it back on, slammed the door, said something about wishing we weren't having our baby and now he's back downstairs playing whatever he's playing and I'm sat in bed shaking.

I realise my behaviour here was a bit childish but surely nothing warrants that? I don't think he will come back up or do anything providing I don't touch the internet (I'm not going to move now at all).

He's quite a calm person and I guess I've seen him angry before but nothing like this and he's never threatened me before. I cannot believe that's just happened. I don't even know why I'm posting I just don't know what to do now I'm sat here shaking and trying to calm myself down as I am heavily pregnant with this horrible mans child.

I can't leave because I don't have anywhere to go at this hour and to be honest the thought of having to go downstairs right now petrifies me.

I guess I just need a handhold here 😞

OP posts:
poundoflard · 30/03/2019 06:56

RTFT

this was started a week ago!
things have moved on considerably!!

IggyAce · 30/03/2019 08:55

Hope everything is ok OP.

Itssosunny · 31/03/2019 16:46

Hope you're ok, OPFlowers

DarlingLittleBabyName · 31/03/2019 17:11

when he's calmed down you need to talk to him. this is a huge red flag, a man who will love and support you and your baby would not do that. focus on yourself now, do you have anywhere you can go? sending you lots of strength OP, good luck! x

FlopsyMopsyRabbit · 31/03/2019 17:20

@brexitisamare how are you?

SunshineCake · 31/03/2019 22:16

Even if you've gone back to him we'd still like to hear you're okay @brexitisamare.

twigandgiggleberries · 31/03/2019 23:24

Thinking of you, OP

6demandingchildren · 01/04/2019 08:18

I was also looking for an update.
Sending love and hugs your way

BulletWithABun · 01/04/2019 11:47

I hope everything is going well Brexit and that you and your baby are ok.

YoungBritishPissArtist · 02/04/2019 13:11

Thinking of you, Brexit Thanks

Itssosunny · 06/04/2019 09:30

Worried about you, OP.

BulletWithABun · 06/04/2019 20:05

Me too. Hope all is ok.

ooItsAoBeautifulDayNow · 06/04/2019 20:27

Thinking of you and hope everything is ok Thanks

RubberTreePlant · 06/04/2019 21:58

If anything IS wrong, she might well have had to hide the thread by now, for safety.

looondonn · 14/04/2019 22:19

Hope all is ok
Can totally relate
I had to flee the house at 38 weeks preg do not know how i made it out in one piece

Thinking of you and your family

HiItsClemFandango · 19/04/2019 14:59

@brexitisamare thinking of you

mcjx · 19/04/2019 23:37

Hope you and your little one are ok, @brexitisamare ❤️ would love an update.

kendoddsdogsdead · 19/04/2019 23:54

You need to leave him. Seriously

JammyGem · 20/04/2019 00:18

@brexitisamare I really hope you and the little one are OK.

Aria999 · 29/04/2019 20:01

OP hope you're ok?

Missbee90 · 29/04/2019 22:06

OP, hope you’re ok x

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