How would you feel about this? A bit on the long side....

[Yorkiegirl]

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bother. he needs to tell her to get knotted, in no uncertain terms. how does she know his work number?

i'd ring her myslef and tell her to F**k off and leave my husband alone as she's so persistant.

i disagree munz - should be YG DH making the call - as she'ld probably just regard rattling YG that much as being part of the fun.

id personally make a trip to see her face to face, tell her calmly that this is not on!

its more confrontational (sp?) face to face imo

i remember reading your thread last year, and im so sorry this isnt the end of it for you and that she keeps getting involved in your lives...

just one thought though...

you say you asked dh only last week if he had heard from her....do you think dh got paranoid that you know something and were asking him so that he could have a chance to come clean...

...thought about it, then volunteered the information that she got intouch...hope you see what i am trying to say, im not too good with words.

it seems of a coincedence that he hasnt heard from her in ages, then when you ask, bang, out of the blue she got in touch a week later

did he ever stop being intouch with her?
sorry to be so blunt and brutal, but its something i thought of and perhaps you should think of that possibility

well it's 6's and 7's to me, (if it was me in the position with my DH) a) he's blanet anyhow so it wouldn't be an issue but if he wasn't so blatent in tellin said girl to leave him alone, I wouldn't keep bugging him about it/ listen to him tell her as he'd get more wound up, i'd either talk to her myself or, i'd go somewhere where I know she tries to see him and stay with DH just so she was fully aware of the situation.

YG - is she texting on his new number? agree thou how did she get the new numbers/ his work no. does she have a few 'issue's do to speak of her own?

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text's r not really much use as ppl can ignore them a lot easier in my mind, it's either face to face or telephone, failing that change numbers again?

think about it this way thou (and this is gonna sound horrible) not towards ur DH thou I must add, if u were chasing a man and his wife rang u and told u to back off would u keep ringin him? I certainly wouldn't. what is she after? it sound's like more than friendship to me, althou I don't see the point as he's obviousl married/ in love with u. has he told her he's happy in his marriage and everyhting?

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Can't he just ring her with you present and tell her to get lost?That would surely satisfy all involved as she sounds really persistent.Is she ringing/texting on the original number or is this to a new number If it is a new number he has to tell you how she got it

cod...thats what i wonder...yg, is dh as innocent as what you may think/hope

please please dont think im being cruel, im not, but you must look at all angles here even if sometimes you dont want to see a particular angle, you need to look

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then all 3 of u sit donw some wher netural but public so as not to cause a scene and tell her straight this is the way things r and to leave u alone. would he be tempted to contact her agian after that thou to apologise or soemthing stupid? then get rid of the old phone, does she know anyone else u do who might have told her where ur DH works?

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