Great first date but I've not heard from him since

[lostindreams]

Met up on Saturday. Thought it would just be a quick coffee in the afternoon but we stayed out for 7 hours and had dinner. He had vague plans with his friends that evening but stayed out with me instead. No kiss at the end of the night but I did send him a message after saying I had a great time and we should do it again soon. He replied straightaway agreeing but now nothing! There was definitely chemistry.

Why stay out so long with someone if you're not that bothered?! Some of my friends think I should just text him but I feel like I've made it obvious I'm keen already.

Well he is away this w/end as OP told us, so it's not poor that he suggested next Sun - but morning is questionable, depends what exactly he suggests to do on the date. If a nice brunch place - or anything that shows he made an effort, give it a go.

*The thing is at this stage you just don’t know. He could be dating multiple people (but by the sounds of it so are you!) He could just have something else on in the afternoon and be trying to squeeze you in because he really likes you. He could be not that interested or he could just not be much of a texter.

Bottom line is if you like him it might be worth one more date. If you’re not that fussed then leave it.*

This! So many assumptions and accusations been thrown at the poor guy here, he may just be busy with real life

It's completely possible that he's a plonker OP, but it's equally possible that he has a life other than OLD and isn't lining up a hareem. I also don't understand why him pursuing other irons is being used as a negative against him here as you are also dating others, perfectly normal in the early stages?

I always respected that other people were busy (as I am!)
If you think he's worth it, get to know him a bit better before binning him off. If not, then don't 🤷🏼‍♀️

"Sunday morning? What did you have in mind"

And if the idea has is no good or non existent don't bother.