My husband has left me and now I'll be having Christmas alone.

[Glorianaz]

I am devastated and I have nobody to talk to. I found messages to other women and now he has told me he doesn't like me or want me and he wants a divorce. We have 2 children. Big Christmas planned with his family that our eldest is really looking forward to. Youngest is a baby and it's her first Christmas.

I can't believe this is happening to me. How do I even begin to deal with this?

That is true, but to me, and others I suspect, it came across as „everyone else is better for the kids, I have no one, husband‘s family don‘t give a shit if I come, I‘ll just let DH walk all over me with his plans, gifts are over there anyway, nothing can be done.“
This may have been misconstrued by me, but that is how it came across to me. And if that is the scenario, you have to assert yourself.

Don't see why he get the baby on Christmas day,she'd probably rather be with her mum if she's under one.

I see what you mean Deepwater.

Hopefully the OP has read the whole thread which covers pretty much every opinion.

I hope you come back (probably on a new thread) to seek advice moving forward Glorianaz. I wish you strength and hope you find RL support

@Glorianaz I hope you are ok