Surely everyone googles, especially after a first date. I asked my boyfriend what his surname was on our first date, partly out of interest and partly because you cannot google with only a really common first name (even if you know their job etc). I know he googled me too.
I’d be more worried about someone who wasn’t interested enough to google.
Good luck for all these first dates. I’m hoping there’s chemistry all round. 😁
@giggleshizz. Many years ago I (unsuccessfully) tried OLD as a young, very slim woman. Because most of the other 21 year olds I knew were about the same size as me, I selected ‘about average’ in my profile description. I was told by the first 2 guys I met that I should change it to ‘slim’ because they assumed that ‘about average’ meant ‘a bit overweight’.
From this, I would suspect that it really doesn’t matter which description you choose because people interpret these things so completely differently. One person’s ‘slim’ is another’s ‘curvy’ and possibly another’s ‘very overweight’. It depends on all sorts of factors. Certainly, my mum still insisted I was tiny even when I’ve felt like I’m enormous and need to lose weight. But 21 year old me would look at the number on my scales these days in disgust, even though nearly 40 year old me thinks she’s pretty slim these days. 😆
I also agree that choosing anything suggesting you are very overweight (and I am most certainly not suggesting you are) and you’ll start to attract people with more particular interests.
So, yeah, who cares what it says on your profile. Wear your new top and go out feeling confident and, I’m sure, looking amazing.