@WhoKnows11 - I've not got a clue - I've been ghosted, though he's not blocked me on WhatsApp - the 2 grey ticks are there, but the messages aren't read? My spidey senses are telling me he may not have been as single as he was making out (I didn't see any evidence of a woman living at his house when he gave me a tour on WhatsApp video, but I don't know what else to think). I won't be making that mistake again, but you live and learn I suppose.
Ex H has just confirmed that he will have DC Sunday during the day and overnight, so if I get any replies from last night's messaging, I'm going to try and arrange a first meet up sooner rather than later and not waste a couple of weeks messaging.
Advice needed though ladies - I may have committed an OLD etiquette faux pas. I noticed a guy I've known socially for about 10 years on there, he is really lovely and has had a horrid couple of years - his wife left him 4 months after they got married for another guy (who she was seeing before they got married). I know his self esteem took an absolute bashing over it. In his profile he is so down on himself - e.g. "I know I'm not the most photogenic guy" etc - but he is lovely. He is a friend so off limits as far I'm concerned and there's a lot of history involving my exh, his exw and her best friend - very messy - they all work together and he knew about my husband's affair with his exw's best friend before I did.
Anyway, I just messaged him and said "Hi M, don't worry, I'm not about to hit on you, but I just wanted to say don't be so down on yourself in your profile, you are a good looking guy and any lady would be lucky to have you. Hope you find a lovely lady soon, you deserve it after everything you've gone through. Take care, JSPx"
Now I'm worried I shouldn't have said anything, but his profile just screams "I've got low self esteem and I'm terrified of getting hurt". 