Well, I haven't updated since the beginning of the last thread. I've been feeling really down and had some difficult communication with my exH which is affecting my confidence a lot.
I only really have 1, maybe 2 irons at the moment.
Mr Boardgames - I've seen him probably 6 times now, we both really like each other, He's lovely, a feminist, easy to talk to, generous in bed. I think he would be happy to move things to a more serious level, but I only want a fairly casual relationship (still emotionally processing my impending divorce, am insanely busy with work/study/kids, and am enjoying a variety of sexual experiences, which I'd never had as I married the first man I slept with and stayed with him for 19 years). So we will probably have to have that conversation soon, and see if casual-but-ongoing works for him or not.
Mr Meter is my very occasional FWB from another city. I've seen him twice now .. he usually messages a few days before he travels for work. I don't know if I will see him again, we don't ever message in between meetings. The sex is nice but not mind-blowing, but there's something compelling about him....
Mr Tropics - we've only messaged very briefly, and maybe planning on meeting up soon. We are both only looking for something casual, and both terribly laid back about it all, so I won't be surprised if it never eventuates lol.
That's it for me, and I'm not actively swiping at the moment. I have my final post-grad subject for the year ... it's an an intensive, which means 6 months of work squished into 6 weeks ... so I don't have a huge amount of free time for dating and messaging.