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I am thinking to tell his wife...

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Anon31483 · 18/10/2018 15:22

Hi all

i was dating a guy who when we met told me he is single two years. I then found out some stuff on twitter and then when i confronted him he told me he is separated and we had a huge argument but he wanted to make up insisting he is separated and thats a thing of the past. Then i found out the truth that he is fully married.

Needless to say, i was mad and i confronted him calling him names and he then finally admitted they had problems. After that i found out he lied to me about other stuff as well like he had given me false zodiac sign and about health issues to to try and get sympathy from me to make up.

This happened on July and since then we dont talk. I am thinking to tell his wife because what happened to me was very unfair. I had just broken up from a relationship when i met him and he told me he was also looking for relationship. I had no idea he had a leverage to turn to, as I had none and he could easily go back to his wife whilst i had nothing. Thats very unfair in my opinion and has been eating me up this period of time

What is more in twitter I had found out a post from 1 month before we met, that his unborn child that will come on September and when i confronted him he said that this was a joke between his cousin and him because they are close and there is no child on the way.

I feel like it was unfair and it has been eating me up because i feel like i was left without anything whilst he had his safety net all along.

OP posts:
Jakethekid · 19/10/2018 16:39

Stop calling his wife the "backup" you insensitive person. She married him, she is the one that is waiting at home whilst he's slagging around, probably all the while cooking his dinner and cleaning his dirty cheating underwear. You have lost nothing. You are not tied to him, not married or have any legal links. It is her that will hurt properly and her that will have to go through all this tress because her husband can't keep it in his pants.

If you wanted to tell her because you feel she should know that's ones thing. Telling her because YOU are pissed off that you were "duped"? Selfish, childish and insensitive.

Jakethekid · 19/10/2018 16:40

Actually wanted to call you an insensitive cow but it would probably be deleted

Jakethekid · 19/10/2018 16:43

Shagging* not slagging

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