LMD - moving on from abusive parents pt2

[Littlemissdemeanour]

As the old thread is filling up,

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I’m okay, kiddo.... I am lucky enough to have a brilliant husband and some great friends who totally get it. At no stage has anyone let me feel like I am alone. This is why I am constantly checking in on you, btw. I don’t want you feeling like nobody cares. I genuinely do. I maybe an odd duck on the other side of the world, but I do genuinely care. I’m sorry everything is smacking you while you’re down. Life’s not fair, the bastard. Don’t know why we keep expecting it to be so. I know it will balance out and I also know you’ve got the smarts and the strength to ride the wave until it does. It just sucks for now. Feel free to vent any time. X

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LMD = Littlemissdemeanour

Hope all is as well as can be today LMD. Nice relaxing Sunday for you.

Thinking of you today, Littlemissdemeanour.

So my friend, I assume you are going to keep diarising your interactions with this arsewipe you have to work with.... You will continue to do so with dignified aplomb, because you’re naturally like that. This week I would like to hear that something surprised you in a positive way. You never know.... it may happen. Perhaps a lottery win!

Thinking of you x

Hi all

Things been hard. Work wares on. Pish messages rolling in 'are you not wondering how we are'  was one!

Parking all that aside, flower class was awesome !!!! AND I've a date tomo (!) ..

I've a date tomo

Yay, that's great news.. a bit of positive for you. :) Hope it goes well.

Woo Hoo!!! Have a fantastic time ... and what was that you were saying about being utterly alone?

A date, Littlemissdemeanour? And this was the woman who thought she'd be doomed to a lonely future?

"are you not wondering how we are"? It's quite a clever txt. It could confuse you into answering.

They've got you either way. If you reply "yes, I am" they've got you. Reply "no, I dgaf" they've still got you.

Sorry to hear about the work crap, but oooohhh a date! Very exciting. Hope its a great one.

Is it getting easier to ignore the messages? I really hope so!

Have a brilliant time on your date!

Ooooooooooh! A date! So exciting!!! Is he gorgeous?

Wishing you well for the date op!!

Oooh good luck with your date! Very exciting!

Enjoy the date, long as you have a good time it's a success =)

Truly amazing text from your parents! Are you not wondering how they are? I mean .... how selfish of you, after you beat them up an' all, imr?

Im wondering if LMD has been whisked off to Paris by her date for a week of debauchery? (Fingers crossed.. )

Hope you are doing OK and the date went well

Also hoping you had a lovely time

OMG. That's the date just over now 😂

@justilou1 he is absolutely gorgeous, yes. You'd have to see it to believe it!

whooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo!
Fab! :D

 I'm so happy for you! Well done LMD!

Don't know... I feel horribly anxious now that it all happened so fast. Wed lunchtime and we have spent all this time together solid. Now back home (he was at mine, me at his).

I stupidly said to him this morning 'do you think we will see each other again' and he said why would we not?

I just have this feeling I'll never hear from him again. He dropped me off this morning, kiss and text you later but eugh... I feel like I may have fucked it up (literally).

Also having a minor confidence crisis as this man is incredibly good looking. And when I say that, I mean it. I wouldn't say I'm bad looking, but he's defo considerably better.

That is a long first date.

I'd suggest you think of it like this...
You've had fun.. I assume.. so even if you don't see him again then at least you had these three days of fun so you've gained far more than you'll have lost.