Seduction advice needed

[EleanorLoves]

Hello,

I really need your help. I am very attracted to a man at work. He seems interested too but I'm not 100% sure. I feel like the sexual tension is building up between us.

My office has a very strict no relationships policy but fortunately he is leaving in early December for a new role elsewhere.

I'm looking for some sneaky tricks to get into his mind and under his skin. I already told him that I had a dream about him, and that seems to have helped. But I need more sneaky, slow burn ideas please! Little mind tricks...

Obviously I don't want things to peak too soon as I have over 2.5 months to fill.

Thanks in advance.

P.S. Ultimate aim is to make him mine, long term.

Icantbelieveitsnotnutter, honestly there is so much banter. I worked out that we have chatted for about 70 hours. I've known him a year but only properly for a couple of months (70 hours in 2 months) and I feel like he's my soulmate. Like a best friend whose clothes I want to rip off. He is ridiculously sexy. Swoon.

trevormcdonald, agreed.

I just wondered if there's anything similar to me telling him that I had a dream about him. That I could say relatively innocently but that would get under his skin.

If you look good, you feel good. So were clothes, makeup, hairdo that make you feel sexy as that will bring out that little minx in you. You can reel him in bit by bit with your seductive looks without it looking fake.

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Maybe when its raining one day wear a white top on and let your hair get wet. He wont be able to resist

How do you know telling him that has got under his skin? You're either under his skin and in his mind, or you're not.

I dream about my colleagues a lot. Did you tell him it was a particularly sexy dream?

Don't do anything is my advice you will simply look like try hard and a bit sad.

Just carry on as normal, and things will develop at their own pace. If it's possible to have coffee with him, chat - whatever, take the opportunity whenever it arises.

But don't fiddle with your hair, lick your lips or rub your thighs.

letsgetouttahere, it was an innocent dream but it came up in conversation again later. I think it was a little hint that I'm thinking about him. I think giving him little signs that maybe I fancy him might make him think of me in that way too. When we find out that someone may be attracted to us, it can make us more interested in them.

I will be very subtle.

Great! For goodness sake make sure you get his contact details when he leaves your work, just to "keep in touch" of course. Slowly slowly catchy monkey! Do you help each other or liaise in any way actually with work? Always a good reason to get extra talking time before he goes. I'm sure you'll both need to share your expertise with each other

We are going for work drinks next week. We usually engineer it so that we sit next to each other. Last time was on a bench. Do you think calf to calf contact would be too much?

This is a joke right ?

As well as rubbing your thighs next time you catch his eye, flick your tongue quickly over your top and bottom lips and make mmmmmm sounds.

That’ll do it.

When you're looking at him and he's talking, slowly look at his left eye then right eye then lips - in a triangle, maybe a couple of seconds on each. Good luck!!

You don't think every Tom Dick and Harry knows that trick?

You don't think every Tom Dick and Harry knows that trick?

Maybe they do but the OP asked for seductive tips - maybe she doesn't know it and it's up to her if she uses it or not. If she already knows it and/or doesn't wish to use it then she can just scroll past

Funicorn, it's not a joke.

Thanks to the genuine posters. I have recently come out of a 16 year relationship so I'm rusty with the flirting. I was never great at it before but now I'm feeling more confident, just rusty.

Let your eyes linger on him a little too long when you know he can see and catch his glance and don't look away immediately.

It's going to be a fun 2 months!

You've said he's old school and would not want to date before leaving the company so just develop some good banter and rapport but don't start actually trying to seduce him at the work's night as you risk rejection and it might blow it.

The point is that he may well know that trick and know she's trying to seduce him. It's a bit teenage.

Yes, I don't want to 'peak too soon', as it were! 🤣

It's certainly good fun...

With this advice your gonna look like a weird horny crazed woman who can't stop touching/rubbing yourself whilst crazy eye staring him!!!

gizmomonki, ha ha! I can be discreet.

What do people think about the calf to calf st the drinks? Too much?