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Oh fuck. I think I’ve just found an affair phone

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FuckyDuzz · 03/08/2018 15:57

Well it’s not really an ‘I think’ really, I just have

There was an unfamiliar beeping coming from the coat/shoe cupboard so I went in to investigate and found a phone in DPs coat, a cheap little Nokia with just one contact - a woman’s name

I am home alone with 4 kids trying not to cry but honestly I could throw up right now
Wtf

OP posts:

Knittedfairies · 04/08/2018 22:04

💐

Passthebiscuitspls · 04/08/2018 22:13

My lovely, I have been exactly where you are, and I can vouch for the fact its a god awful place to be. I Felt totally panicked, sick and so very vulnerable.

You need to be prepared for the fact that he may never tell you the truth. You may never get the answers you are looking for, and that hurts.

But... 2 years on... I survived! and you will too. I divorced him straight away, got over him and am living my best life just me and the kids. And smug in the knowledge that I dodged a massive bullet. And she's still with him! good luck girlfriend!! x

Sophaloaf · 04/08/2018 22:14

💐

lapenguin · 04/08/2018 22:14

Good luck!

Sophaloaf · 04/08/2018 22:14

Sophaloaf · 04/08/2018 22:15

darksideofthemooncup · 04/08/2018 22:17

anniefin · 04/08/2018 22:19

Alfiemoon1 · 04/08/2018 22:21

I think people were advising u to google the number and get as much info as possible before you confronted him as he is likely to minimise and lie. I hope your talk is going well and it is all completely innocent although if he found a random phone and was going to hand it in surely he would of mentioned it in passing?

hiddeneverything · 04/08/2018 22:27

Thinking of you xx

Guavaf1sh · 04/08/2018 22:28

Very best of luck

RavenLG · 04/08/2018 22:33

good luck op.

Poisongirl81 · 04/08/2018 22:33

has the OP replied?

UterusesBeforeDuderuses · 04/08/2018 22:41

Good luck!

Bobbiepin · 04/08/2018 22:45

Hope you're ok OP. Stay strong

Sharpandshineyteeth · 04/08/2018 22:49

I hope there is an explanation for this. Good luck. X

NotAnotherNoughtiesTune · 04/08/2018 22:50

I hope you got some answers tonight @FuckyDuzz - not knowing just eats you up.

No matter what it is you did not deserve it, nor do your kids. 💐

mehhh · 04/08/2018 22:55

TheMagicTorch · 04/08/2018 23:14

Cauliflowersqueeze · 04/08/2018 23:15

You must be exhausted from thinking all this through on top of managing the kids. Thinking of you and hoping there was some explanation.

Cagliostro · 04/08/2018 23:18

Hope you're getting some answers x

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