Oh fuck. I think I’ve just found an affair phone

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Well it’s not really an ‘I think’ really, I just have

There was an unfamiliar beeping coming from the coat/shoe cupboard so I went in to investigate and found a phone in DPs coat, a cheap little Nokia with just one contact - a woman’s name

I am home alone with 4 kids trying not to cry but honestly I could throw up right now
Wtf

I’m sorry ☹️

Hope you are ok OP?

Fake it 'til you make it.

Can your mum take the kids when you feel ready to act?

Take a deep breath and search for her details online. I would feel happier if it was an affair and not a sex worker (that's mainly down to STDs). Get yourself checked asap whatever else you do.

I hope you are ok. Life is too short to waste time with people who do not respect you 🤗

Let him go out so you can pack his bags whilst he's gone.

Thinking of you op xx

Hope you are ok OP

It's just sad how many of these threads I've read since I joined MN...

Bloody hell what a horrible thing to find. Feel for you OP.

I'm so sorry OP

Thinking of you op

Hope you are ok op

Really feel for you, what a horrible shock.

Hope you’re ok

So sorry you’re going trough this

Have you got someone who can come round and be with you?

Hopefully you have someone to come sit with you whilst he goes out

No advice but sending you supportive vibes OP, it's a really shitty thing to find out.

Hope you're ok OP

You will get over this and move on. This moment in time is horrific but it’s not forever.

Hope everything is going ok .
I don't you have said if you are married or not ?

I'm confused.

Has DP/DH returned home first, before going out to "dinner" with his mates or what?

Probably too late but you could say 'I'll come with you!! I've got a sitter ' and watch him squirm x

Thinking of you

My feeling is it's one of your friends. Sorry. Hope you are ok.

Hoping you're doing ok, or at least as well as you could be under the circumstances