AIBU - Sent a personal pic

[ThirdTimeUnlucky]

So, I've been dating a guy for 3 mths. We send personal pics to each other - no big deal. He requested one recently a bit more personal so I decided to send one today as he was stressed at work.
His response was along the lines of who's m*nge is that?
I replied 'just delete it' and then blocked him on WA.
He's now saying (via text msgs) I'm being unreasonable, he apologised for using the wrong terminology, said it took him by surprise (obviously not in a nice way). His last msg was 'I can't win'.
I was going to unblock him but he's just dug a bigger hole for himself.
Am I being unreasonable? He asked for the pic not so long ago. I even edited it with a X (kiss). I feel insulted that he didn't know it was mine! . Lol.

They send them to offices same day, better for stress than a beaver pic

Oh dear god ! Is sending these pics a thing ? It takes me ages to perfect a decent selfie. The mind boggles ! Shit ! ..and what if someone else gets hold of your phone..Kids..mine often (annoyingly) scroll through my pics and stuff ! Jeeeeeesus ! Minge pics...Ugh !

How can u trust he isnt sharing the pic with colleagues dont debase urself

Not sure if you are upset he didn't 'recognise' the minge was yours, or the word minge.

Either he thinks incredibly little of you.

If you want to send photos of your fanny to a bloke you barely know, crack on, your choice, but make sure you dont include your face in any photos or you will be identifiable to anyone else who sees these images if he shares them. Have you never heard of revenge porn?

Next time get him a giant Millie’s cookie

What is that a euphemism for?

Sending your bf pics of your boobs... bum in a thong or you in underwear is not unusual. And could be quite a turn on. Sending a close up of your...um....minge is a bit weird no?

Did he actually say send a sexy pic, or send a minge pic? Maybe that's why he's confused.

either way

Well your minge is probably by now being forwarded to all his friends and plastered on what not to eat.

When are women ever going to learn that sending personal pics like that will never end well.

I prefer whispering eye, adds a bit of mystery to the minge.

Thanks Babe, feel like l can tackle the filing now

Ybh if guys every sent unsolicited dick pics they got shown round the office and laughed at

Whatever happened to a nice mix tape?

A bit like Tuna surprise 😂

Right, I'm off now otherwise I'll not be able to eat for the rest of the day.

Good luck with your endeavours op.

Actually, thinking about it, I prefer the term 'hoo-ha' to minge...

Also means that I can giggle childishly about the phrase 'bit of a hoo-ha'...

Em... Yeah, so....

What's the issue here? He didn't respond immediately with "nice snatch, That's certainly lifted me out of the doldrums and no mistake"?

Is this something people do now? Am I a prude? I can't imagine anything more horrifying than opening a message, expecting some cute little picture of puppies or kittens or the like and being greeted beaver-first.

Also, where does he work? Unless it's on a porn set, I'm guessing looking at random fannies on his phone is frowned upon.

Next time he asks for a photo of your pussy, send him this

It wasn't unsolicited - doesn't anybody read.
He asked, I obliged, albeit a week later.
But what's the point of asking for opinions when everyone is having a laugh at my expense at the idea of sending personal pics.

"How different, how very different, from the home life of our own dear Queen!"

OP you TOTALLY should have replied with:

'Ok sorry, just wanted to give my tuppence worth'

Maybe he was surprised that you had taken it to the next level as you haven't done so before. I would say he was definitely surprised by your response of blocking him rather than a dirty reply or a winking emoji!

Fucking hell it's like Jane Austen 😂 as a pp said, a lingerie shot or a bit of boob tastefully done could be quite sexy. A close up of your bits? Grim. I don't really get the issue. If he'd said whose pussy is that it would've been ok?
What a time to be alive...

But he asked a week ago. He didn't ask today. So it was unsolicited.

If I told you I wanted a hug off you a week a go it doesn't mean you can just give me one today.

I've managed to read through the thread and NOT choke on my tea. Then gone back and read the OP's first post again. I think she is miffed that BF didn't recognise her bits.

Although tbf to BF, after only 3 months he might not be that familiar with them, visually, to recognise them out of context on an unsolicited pic whilst he's wrestling with his spread-sheets.

And he did apologise.

So, OP, yes you are BU.

I don't understand why anyone would send these pictures- surely it's Smartphone 101 at this stage?

Once a girl in my team at work recieved an unsolicited dick pic from a guy she'd been very casually chatting to on Bumble. She was so horrified she showed the whole (female) team, our boss and our female director. My favourite memory is the director frowning at the picture and asking "why does it look so.....angry?"