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Feeling positive about the future after DH died

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Chasingsquirrels · 25/05/2018 16:07

Just starting off before we hit 1000 on the last thread...

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MrsJonesAndMe · 29/06/2018 21:22

Hello all

Sports day done, cake and cupcakes done. Brain fried. horse I think it was you that asked - yes to parent races. I had to laugh as all these macho men got up and then the last person to join the line up in a saunter did a Usain Bolt and won it Grin

Squirrel I can only echo the others to do what feels right at the moment. (((hugs)))

Ouch for the nose84 and the painful shopping/arguments Willow I asked DD to tidy her room and got back and could see no difference Hmm Shock

Take care all of you and catch up with you after the party. Then it's just MIL staying the night to deal with Envy

84CharingCrossRoad · 30/06/2018 19:48

Went shopping with Mum this morning and got a lovely belt in the charity shop. This afternoon I sat in the garden with Mr B. Mum watched the ⚽!! Shock
I was chatting to my friend in FB. He was highly amused that the roles were reversed! 😂 😂 😂
Have a whole day off tomorrow. Church in the morning and then Mum is off to her sisters for lunch so I will relax in the garden again....

bookbook · 30/06/2018 22:00

Evening all
Long day today - was at the allotment from early doors.
Zoomed home for lunch, then DH had an appointment in the afternoon, quite near DD2, so we popped in to see her afterwards .
Flopped tonight after a bath .
Hope everyone has enjoyed the day

MrsJonesAndMe · 01/07/2018 07:56

Hello

We had a loooong but 99% good day. DS was a little shit at bed time though made me cry

Off out this morning and then the whole getting ready for the week malarky.

Hope you're all OK x

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Willow2017 · 01/07/2018 08:58

Morning all.

Smashing cake MrsJ you are very talented. Sorry he was a monster at the end of the day. ((Hugs))

Busy day yesterday ended up working till 5! Home for quick change then off to see Jurassic World. Was a good ol romp😀 lots of references harking back to J Park and others in the franchise. Had mcD before we left (nowhere else open😐) and didn't get back till 11.30 and we all fell into bed.

Ds2 came through to see if i was awake and when i checked time it was 4.30!!! So sent back to bed. It was brilliant sunshine then which prob threw him.😀

Glorious day so no doubt busy day at work ahead. Am still aching from yesterday. 😀

Have a fab day.

84CharingCrossRoad · 01/07/2018 16:04

Went to ⛪ this morning and then a friend popped over for coffee. Mum went out to lunch and I've made lasagne and 🍋 Meringue Pie! Sat down after lunch and watched some of my dvd of Jane Eyre with Toby Stephens.
Now laying in the garden with Bumbledog listening to Radio 2...

Chasingsquirrels · 01/07/2018 17:33

Fab cake MrsJ, sorry hear ds was a pain and hope you've had a good day.

Lemon meringue pie is one of my favourites 84.

I really enjoyed Jussasic World too willow. Made me smile your ds coming in at 4.30am. Was getting light here at that time as well.

Must be too hot for the allotment book? Early evening watering.

Boys at camp on the scout field from 10am yesterday and at their dad's from finish today and due home soon.

Chris cake over yesterday, woth flowers and food - and cooked for me! Very nice steak, new potatoes and asparagus. After the chocolate fudge cake he brought a couple of weeks ago I've told him he can come again!
We tool Charlie out to a local pond for a swim and picked up some raspberries and ice cream.
We planned to go to Ely aquafest today but didn't get up till late and it was so hot, so we just went to a local farm shop for lunch then chilled out this afternoon.

My vacuum packed up yesterday so I ordered another one from Argos click and collect - and despite confirmation when we popped to pick it up on the way back from lunch it hadn't been ordered and they had none in stock. Very annoying.

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MrsJonesAndMe · 01/07/2018 18:01

Thanks, I was quite pleased with the cake. He's been much better today. Sugar overload and excitement has a lot to answer for. Also MIL changed her plans so he was upset with that.

Sounds like a lovely weekend Squirrel and 84

Hope work was bearable in heat, boss/colleagues and customers.

Good luck for the week ahead all. book hope the allotment isn't wilting too much!

Horsemad · 01/07/2018 19:56

Wow, gorgeous cake MrsJ!

I've had a fab weekend, shame I have to go back to work tomorrow!!! 😂😂 Got a bit sunburnt, which is annoying as I'm always lecturing my DC about wearing sunscreen... 🙄 It's not painful luckily, just looks a bit red.

I am just about to eat some Banoffee Pie, but could just eat a slice of lemon meringue - love anything lemony for dessert.

Glad everyone has had a good weekend 🙂

Willow2017 · 01/07/2018 20:37

Evening all.
Busy but not as bad as could have been thankfully. Was melting!
Cooler this evening with bit of breeze thank goodness.

Sounds like lovely days all round.

Am gonna chill out this pm. Car in for service tomorrow so ironing can wait till then and blitzing house, shutting cases all ready to run😀

Have lifted some tulip bulbs out pots to dry out and means less heavy pots to move😀 hope they will be ok will bag them up tomorrow.

bookbook · 02/07/2018 09:00

Morning all !
lovely cake MrsJ - I hope DS is playing nice again.
Chasing - pah about the vacuum cleaner , but other than that its sounding good
Horse - I get slathered in spf stuff, but the sun will always find a bit you've missed !
Willow - fingers crossed again for bid on house :)
84 - Lemon meringue pie, yes please, but probably too late I bet
Have been working on the allotment, and yes much too hot, but fruit and veg need picking, and it all needs a lot of watering. So I went yesterday morning, then hid inside for the rest of the day . Sewing, doing bits and pieces, making chocolate courgette brownies and generally feeling a bit washed out with the heat. I think I have mentioned before, I really don't like the heat! ( party pooper me Grin )
So today, I need to go and water again, and pick raspberries .Have a couple of loads of washing to hang out .
DGS to pick up this afternoon and make tea , then flop .
Trying to finish off some bits of crochet so they are out of the way, but its too hot for wool on the lap!
Have a great day everyone

Willow2017 · 02/07/2018 09:47

Book busy as usual. Dont know how you keep up wirh it all.

Car to garage this am and attacking house. Done bathroom and kitchen. Kids are 'tired' bless em.
Will be a lot more tired soon!

Cant get gp appiint re scan for 3 weeks! (One i am on hol but otherwise not a thing till end of july!)

Mizzly today but put wash out fingers crossed wind will dry it.

Have a good day all need to cattle prod kids into action😀

MrsJonesAndMe · 02/07/2018 13:59

Well you lot have been busy! I've been doing very little really as I did most cleaning stuff yesterday afternoon.

book I'm not too keen on the humid heat here...used to much higher temps, but a dry heat. Hope you survive all those chores. I'm starting my next colour for my blanket, but little 6"ers aren't too bad.

Hope work isn't too rubbish horse and that the pink has gone down Wink always the way...

Willow it can be really difficult to see your GP can't it? I had to wait 3 weeks for an appointment and then they rung me 2 days later to move it back another week. Hope the boys are pulling their weight.

Argh Squirrel vacuum trouble Sad hope you've got the new one now. Glad you and C are having a lovely time together.

Catch up with you all later.

Willow2017 · 02/07/2018 17:03

Afternoon all.
Just got the car back so going off for some shopping and tea at Morrisons. (have a £5 voucher so will get the essensials there Grin)
Guy who dropped it off didnt know if there was anything of note so will phone in morning, if there had I am sure I would have heard as our mech is very good at telling you stuff/price before he does anything major.

Been packing up stuff in my bedroom, photo albums, old books etc. Have stuff for charity shop too. Found my old pc games and tried one and it works....lost a bit of time there Grin

Glad to hear you have had a less busy day MrsJ not like you at all but definately needed, you never stop!

Hope you get the vacuum sorted out Squirrels mine had blocked after ds1 used it today and a tiny scrap of filter mesh is gone, sucks like a crazy thing but blocks quickly, need to hunt out some mesh. Mind you makes a change from permanently working brilliantly for 2 days then being 'blocked' as main filter gets dirty after 2 uses! Drives me mad.

All this talk of cakes/pie hmmm wonder if morrisons have lemon meringue pie? Ds2 got a piece when out for lunch the other day but he didnt like the lemony bit so I scoffed it at home it was lovely, soft and wobbly, home made not that solid stuff the commercial ones are like.

Chasingsquirrels · 02/07/2018 17:12

Busy days all round. Sounds like everyone is well.
Work here, finished at 2.30 as will be working till 4 for the rest of the week including Friday as taking ds1 to work experience on my way. Just been chilling since.

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MrsJonesAndMe · 03/07/2018 09:54

Hi all

Hope it's not too hot/busy where you are.

I'm feeling really foggy today so trying to take it at a slow pace at least as I'm not working. Walked children to school, got washing in the machine and sorting some bits and pieces of paperwork now. Dentist later and then need to go do a few chores in town.

What work experience is DS1 doing Squirrel?

Have a good day x

Willow2017 · 03/07/2018 11:24

morning all.
Gearing up for work soon.

Its boiling hot already. Washing out and dry stuff sorted. Ironing to put away. Ds1 to drag out of bed😀

Checking my lists for hols just last minute stuff to put in thurs.

Hope we arent too busy its too hot.

MrsJonesAndMe · 03/07/2018 19:35

Hope you haven't melted Willow Just think of the holiday - meant to stay warm/dry/fine for the next while fingers crossed

Going to start square 37 of my blanket tonight - been too hot to really think about crochet, but the little squares aren't too bad and it keeps me off here Wink

Willow2017 · 03/07/2018 20:57

Evening all.
Not too busy but still too hot MrsJ
Was a loooong shift due to doing twice as many hours today and quiet spells.

Number 37! Go you. Dont think i would have the patience😀

Hosp tomorrow and hopefully clean the car inside and out. (Car wash at Morrison's not working yesterday)

bookbook · 03/07/2018 21:05

Evening all
Just sat after a bath doing some crochet ( a shawl for me )
Too hot for me, melting here , but have been to the market to shop, done ironing, then watering and harvesting at the allotment today. Popped in to see one of my old customers to talk about sewing and sewing machines ( was picking her brains) so had a nice hour there.
Not long now Willow - looks like you are going to have fabulous weather !
Doing well on the squares MrsJ :)
Have a good evening everyone

Willow2017 · 04/07/2018 11:04

Morning all.

Up early as had to get appiint for ds1 as ge announced last night his toe is still sore! Salt bathing scrubbing with toothbrush and dressing px!

Been digging out more bulbs to empty a big trough. Glorious day very hot already. Off to hosp in an hour Planning on dragging kids wirh me to get them off devices 😀 wish me luck with that.

Hope you are all having nice days and work not too bad.

MrsJonesAndMe · 04/07/2018 13:59

Hope all goes alright at the hospital Willow

Busy but not stressed here, which is a win!

Picture of the shawl book?

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84CharingCrossRoad · 04/07/2018 15:42

Wilf leaves college today. 20 years of education finished!

Willow2017 · 04/07/2018 16:14

Damm😠 bloods down again. Need more damm steroids but can wait till after hols just to take them with me just in case.
Sitting tucking into lemon meringue pie as consolatuon😀

Horsemad · 04/07/2018 17:28

Oooh, annoying Willow Angry Hope they get you sorted soon.

84 - wow, 20yrs! That's a long time 🙂

What's kept you busy today MrsJ? I've had the day off, cooler today but still sunny. Not done much, feel tired - think the heat is stopping me sleeping properly. Hopefully get a decent sleep tonight.