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Feeling positive about the future after DH died

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Chasingsquirrels · 25/05/2018 16:07

Just starting off before we hit 1000 on the last thread...

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84CharingCrossRoad · 09/06/2018 22:12

He's home! Slight hiccup but we sorted it. Had Mum on the phone just now as I hadn't let her know that he was home....

Chasingsquirrels · 09/06/2018 22:13

Hit with a baseball bat???

Glad Wilf is home x

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Willow2017 · 09/06/2018 22:23

Drunk friend messing about and hit him with it! Sounds like chaos all round.

bookbook · 09/06/2018 22:54

Evening all
what dramas tonight Shock ,
Chasing - your OLD man sounds like a real gentleman :) what a naughty Charlie....
I love Croque Monsieur MrsJ - I never make it at home though - its usually one of the things I order if I am out for lunch
Willow - painting ??? and poor DS ' toe, but good for him sticking to not drinking - that takes courage
Had a lovely time out with DD - I bought a new lipstick some matching nail varnish and a mascara - ( for the wedding in August - I rather suspect my old mascara has dried up, I haven't worn any for sooo long) . Bought a plant from a charity stall and helped DD to choose some material for a dress.
I got home and have had tea made by DH , and then sat and started a rush blanket kit for WH , which arrived today . A good day :)
Sleep well everyone

MrsJonesAndMe · 10/06/2018 06:01

Ah that sounds like a great day book

Poor boy Willow - how some other people live hey??? Good luck at work today!

Glad Wilf was OK.

Stupidly early start here again yawn

Chasingsquirrels · 10/06/2018 06:24

Morning.
Not sure why I woke up just before 6am, but am still in bed.
Am taking ds2 to a judo competition today and ds1 is going to a family event with his girlfriend!

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Willow2017 · 10/06/2018 08:56

Morning.

Good luck for ďs Squirrels.

Book i told him i was proud of him for sticking to his guns. Cant believe parents letting kids drink then complaining they were drunk and sending them off for a walk to 'sober up' as they didnt want to be responsible for them in that state!

Cool air but sun trying to shine this morning.

Horsemad · 10/06/2018 09:38

Morning everyone! 🙂

Oh Willow, these teen parties... 🙄 been there, done that (both myself and as a parent!). Sounds like your DS is a sensible lad which can only be a good thing. Hope his toe is ok today though, OUCH!!! Poor thing.

Weather reasonable here today, so washing on line & a few jobs to be done before we are off out this afternoon.

Hope the judo comp goes well Chasing 🙂

Have a good day everyone!

Chasingsquirrels · 10/06/2018 16:04

Have a good afternoon horse and hope work is going okay willow.

Ds2 got a bronze - which isn't as good as it sounds because they compete in groups of 4 and the bottom 2 get a bronze. But he won one fight and the other bronze didn't win any of his so he felt a bit better about that.

Just putting new lawn mower together, and wondering whether 4-stroke oil is the same as the stuff I have to top up my car. Off to my parents soon - they collected Charlie earlier as ds1 was out as well so it seems very quiet here without him.

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84CharingCrossRoad · 10/06/2018 16:34

I've given up with my lawnmower I HATE it with a passion. In the 15 years I've owned it I've almost hit a broken wrist and a dislocated shoulder from starting the bloody thing....
We now pay Wilf's best friend who owns a gardening business to do it!!
I've spent a little while in the garden having a cup of tea. Bumble enjoyed it too!!

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Chasingsquirrels · 10/06/2018 16:43

Fab picture 84!
Mostly ds1 cuts the grass for me (when I nag him to).

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bookbook · 10/06/2018 17:10

Afternoon all!
Glorious here , bit too warm for me :)
Benn crafting away this morning on WH blanket ( its a bit of a rush job) . Popped to the allotment for an hour after lunch to water and pick strawberries. Then hacking away weeding in the garden since then. Everyone due soon for tea, then the evening free to carry on with the blanket .- EDIT - they arrived while I was typing !
Willow - hard to decide on hours v money , certainly have to think of your health in this .
MrsJ - arghhh - hope you manage 5 minutes to yourself today to snooze.
Chasing hope the lawnmower goes together well.

MrsJonesAndMe · 10/06/2018 17:28

Hello

You've all been busy beavers! No rest for the wicked here. Turned out really warm in the end. Summer weight duvet on and all ready for the week I think

Well done to DS2 at judo. It's not always easy not being the best is it?

Love bumble dog making the most of the weather.

I'm on my 3rd square for WH snugs now. Hoping to do a few before the end of the month before carrying on with my blanket. You're super woman book.

Hope you survived your shift willow and DS 1's toe is ok.

Anywhere nice horse? Can't wait for all the teenage drama to start Hmm

Later X

84CharingCrossRoad · 10/06/2018 18:17

Just popped out to pick some elderflower heads for cordial. Popped in to the cemetery to say hello to Alan too. Was cycling back to the shop when I heard a voice call out to me. Was the son in law of my best friend. His wife was one of Wilf's gaggle of baby sitters. She is 7 months pregnant so was sharing baby advice. Was suggesting they took the first baby grow home from the hospital for their dogs to smell. That's what Wilf's dad and I did. We sat 45 minutes in the garden catching up and I had a cheeky beer with her husband!!

Willow2017 · 10/06/2018 20:45

Evening all.
Well that was hellish. Boss cook shouting and swearing telling till staff to tell anyone who wanted anything but standard breakfasts as they come to f off calling customers all the * under the sun! Boss female getting in bloody way messing up orders and blaming me for every thing. Was nearly walking by half 11!

Busy all day didn't finish tlll 8.30.

I dont know how long i.can stand this.

Loks like every one has had better days (except lawnmower troubles)

MrsJonesAndMe · 11/06/2018 06:08

(((hugs))) willow

84CharingCrossRoad · 11/06/2018 07:28

Will be making Elderflower Cordial this morning. Work today twice and then my friend is coming to colour my hair for me! Heard from DP's daughters yesterday and we are all going out for lunch together tomorrow!

bookbook · 11/06/2018 09:52

Morning all
well, I pressed post after I had said hello and sorted things out - it was a half an hour after I had written it, so didn't see that lovely picture of bumble dog :)
gah Willow .what a piece of work they are (hugs) .
I love elderflower cordial 84 , but never made it < puts on thinking cap as to where I might get some > . Enjoy your lunch :)
Gentle day today , washing/ironing/picking up DGS- then back quickly after tea for a committee meeting, with WH blanket making thrown in .
Have a good day everyone !

MrsJonesAndMe · 11/06/2018 12:46

Hi all

I also love elderflower, but have never made any. Lunch sounds good 84

Hardly a quiet day book Grin Have housework but cannot be bothered!

Hope you've recovered from yesterday willow and that Charlie stays out of mischief squirrel

Check in tonight x

84CharingCrossRoad · 11/06/2018 14:11

Elderflower Cordial recipe
No hair colouring tonight now as my friend has a sick bug!

84CharingCrossRoad · 11/06/2018 16:20

This morning I went to drop a birthday present off with a friends son. She has elderflower hanging over on the road so she let me pick it. I've frozen four bags of heads. My other friend gave me 5 soft bananas so made her 12 muffins and also two loaves, one for Mum and I and one for bossman. Also made chicken curry for dinner! Back to work at 5pm till half six.

Horsemad · 11/06/2018 17:45

MrsJ I went to see Lionel Richie in concert and very good he was too! 😁

Weather was fab - important for an open air event!!

Tired today though 🙂

MrsJonesAndMe · 11/06/2018 19:12

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Willow2017 · 11/06/2018 21:22

Evening all.
Ooh lucky you Horse

Havent done much after shopping first thing. Been aching all over neck and back is rigid. Will be telling them no more 9.5hr shifts ! Not worth it at all.
84 our elderflowers are just starting to come out dont know if i have the energy for cordial this year.

MrsJ you might need to get the citric acid online as a lot of chemists dont sell it as its used to cut drugs with!

Chasingsquirrels · 11/06/2018 22:19

When are you back at work Willow? Hope you ease up a bit before then. I agree 9.5hrs in that sort of work environment sounds hard work.

Shame about the sick friend 84, but hope you have a lovely lunch tomorrow with A's daughter's x

Concert sounds good horse, and good weather a definite bonus.

Hope you've had a good day book & cake.

No Charlie mischief today thankfully.

Busy day at work then been for a meal with SIL & BIL and their son & his wife who married last Sep. Really nice to see them, but bittersweet.

Called OLD guy afterwards and had a lovely chat. Seeing him again on Saturday evening.

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