Chocmallows, I think the last one has trust issues in general to a point that if he asks something and u don't give him an answer straight away, he goes off on one thinking yo hiding something. As much as I understand the importance of being open and transparent with each other, six weeks of dating isn't enough to freely give someone every single detail of yo life and of those in yo life.
TomHardysBitontheside, he was keen to know me and I think in a long time, I hadn't met anyone who was interested in knowing me, my life......blah blah. But this guy just didn't realise that pple communicate differently and lacked patience. He just doesn't understand that the speed at which he shares info isn't the same speed am going to share. He shared a lot abt him, he was open, but when I hesitated to answer so quickly a question he asked abt my brother, he concluded that am hiding something and am bad at communication and that damaged what we had for six weeks......ridiculous considering everything else was brilliant.
Sad thing is, I was shocked when he broke up with me cos of that, had thought we would talk abt it. But since the break up, we have been chatting, we have both been very unsettled, but he doesn't want to get back together. I tried apologising, asked him to give us another chance, he seems to have made up his mind and wants to be just friends. Am trying to move on and stop talking to him cos it isn't for me, to keep chatting with an ex, I feel I won't move on if I carry chatting with him. I feel so stupid, I sound stupid, I shouldn't even be entertaining the chats but hey, will get over it.