GLAM & FAB TOUR - MEMBERS MEETING POINT!!!

[Ifonlyhewould]

Hi Ladies

Hope you don't mind, ive started this thread to save hijacking the thread of others.

I thought we could use it to attract attention of the other members if needed or whatever

sorry to detract from your very real crisis with a dumb question, what is the glam and fab tour?

i just had a heartbreaking conversation with my exbf via msn

i had to go offline it was too much

lou you ok?

i'll be fine

onwards and upwards eh?

with time. are you lou with the hardest goodbye?

ah yes that would be me

i remember your thread make me cry

i just finally had the balls to say goodbye and mean it, tho it was bloody hard

why goodbye? thought you was going to try and see if it could work long distance?

i went to see him, he told me he wasnt coming back, we broke up, but he was still getting in touch with me

today i emailed him saying i loved him but he isnt coming back and i cant keep prolonging this pain, that i had to let go and move on, told him i had accepted the offer of a date from someone else, wished him luck and told him to be happy

he was straight on msn, saying lots of lovely things but not prepared to change his focus at all, so i repeated myself and went offline

i look crap

oh he did the usual male thing of who is he how old is he, where did you meet him etc

like it made a single difference to the outcome

yeah typical male you have to change your whole life for them where as they change absolutely nothing!

Good for you being strong and moving on with your life.

Lou i have seen your pic cant imagine you looking crap at all!

i have puffy eyes, a red nose, snotty as well lol

Sorry you are going through all this Lou. the bottom line is though he made a choice and he chose his career and his own needs over yours. Now it's your turn to put your needs first. He can't blame you for that surely! I think youv'e done the right thing. If he is so devastated at the thought of losing you to someone else (ive seen your pic too so i guarantee he will!) then he should get on the next bloody plane home!

Stay strong x

thats what i said to him , he cant have it both ways

Hiyah been really busy in RL and not had a chance to get online at all (now got children lurking over my sholder waiting to use the computer)

MLS - sorry to hear your news, whatever the future holds you KNOW you tried your very hardest, nothing like being asked on a date by a nice man to boost a girl's ego is there!!

Lillybubble I did wonder where you were

Keep meaning to try the MSN thing but takes me a while to work out anything new

I know its hard but keep your spirits up girls - you have done nothing wrong....reapeat after me "I deserve to be treated better than this"

Apparently my time is up (shame I was hoping to indulge in some retail therapy too!)

sorry you're having a shit time lou.

I'm in the middle of major row with dh.

He was 'working late' nearly every night last week, leaving all the work to me, and will be 'at a conference in Spain' most of this week, so I asked for 1 day off today.

I didn't get a lie in, I had to help them get ready and out, he came back after a couple of hours cos ds3 behaving badly, then went on to lock him in his room, admitting he pürobably didn't understand what for, then adter he's been let out, he annoyed dh again, so he manhandled him (grabbed roughly by upper arms, carried him screaming UPSIDE DOWN up to his room, leaving red marks on his arm.

Later put film (pirates of carribean, cert 12) on, then moans he can't sit still & quiet for film (he's 3 ffs)

so now we're not talking and I'm seriously wondering if this is worth it.

Will I ever get over his stupid fucking affair??? I don't feel like he's exactly trying

Am now glad he's fucking off tomorrow for 3 days. Tosser

i dont think the miserable weather is helping either,i think hte low pressure aggravates moods

Just to say sorry you're having such a horrible time Ernest Thinking of you x

Ernest, I know how you feel, perhaps it's best he is off tomorrow. I'm not over my hubby's affair either, & he too isn't trying very hard either. But remeber not all men are barstards,some are dead...!!!!

Or have green willy's

Thanks guys

Me too ernest Dh somehow still expects me to "change" as if somehow I am to blame for his roving dick
Not entirely sure I want to forgive him and certainly don't trust him bollocks!

What we need is to come up with a cream. One that you can rub on the bollock area while he sleeps. A cream that makes the bollock area shrivel up and tighten whenever the cream is used, before a trip away for example, or a boys night out.

lol, IOHW You could make a lot of money if you invented that!

Hope you're all surviving . Just checking in as usual. H and I had good weekend with dc's, thinking of possibly dropping dc's off at my Mum's next weekend so we can ahve a night away. First night ever since dc's. My suggestion, just to do something positive before something negative IYKWIM. Mum seemed a bit sceptical suppose because she's been hearing all the bad stuff...

You ok MLS? PC? Mel? Fubsy?

H said to me yesterday "it's a good job that GF didn't get MN shut down or you'd be in rehab" lol

Catch up soon x