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The Fabulous Crown wearing cafe. No contact thread part 9...

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seshi · 12/03/2018 21:01

Hello ladies for anyone attempting, going through or wanted to try No Contact. We don't judge on here... Just lots of lovely support and advice... Come join us

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Bloodyuselessatthinkingofaname · 17/03/2018 18:44

Bolloxed up my WhatsApp as was on there rooting around ,looking at settings and saw starred messages - looked at some AND thought oh I can read without seeing last seen - wanted to see more, pressed the wrong arrow and of course ended up on NC'S chats and saw last seen. DAMN.

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seshi · 17/03/2018 19:04

Evening everyone... Feeling a bit meh today but mainly because I have been stuck at home nearly all day... Weather is so horrible here.... God I want some sunshine... I am certain that NC is harder when you can't get out!

Have had two short messages asking what I am doing... And then nothing. Why...!?

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anxiousnow · 17/03/2018 19:21

Aww bloody Don't worry! It could be worse, you could have accidentally sent something.

seshi can you use the night to do some pampering? You must need it after that run? Before I meant how long from not being a runner did it take to be able to do 6k?

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anxiousnow · 17/03/2018 19:22

Seshi did you reply to the short messages?

NK1cf53daaX127805d4fd5 · 17/03/2018 19:27

Ah Bloody as Anxious said at least you didn't say anything. You'd be kicking yourself!

Seshi did you reply

Basseting · 17/03/2018 19:31

Waves to everyone. Having a horrible day.
Prob wont get on tomorrow.
But will be back Mon at latest.
Sending polish for your Crowns.xXxx

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seshi · 17/03/2018 19:34

@anxious yes just asked him what he was doing as well but no answer.

I started running three years ago. Started power walking first then progressed to running. I run a couple of miles maybe twice a week... Just like to put my head phones on and run for 20 mins. Never pushed a myself to do more but then did park run which is 5k last summer so have been pushing myself now... If I actually finish the course tomorrow I will be chuffed. I was rubbish at pe at school and I am not competive. I do it for my head mainly as I had a break down a few years ago and struggled with meds so turned to exercise. My NC calls me sport Billy. It's such a positive aspect of my life when everything else turns to shit. Oh and just for the record I do drink and also smoke sometimes so I am no fitness freak!!

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seshi · 17/03/2018 19:35

@basseting what's happened?

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Basseting · 17/03/2018 19:37

Ah sorry not meaning to be mysterious drama llama type.
ExH being a nightmare - he's here atm so hard to post.
Wish me endurance....

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seshi · 17/03/2018 19:43

@basseting heaps of endurance...

On a plus side can you get him to download your what's app!? Grin

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NK1cf53daaX127805d4fd5 · 17/03/2018 19:46

Big (((()))) Basseting

Bloodyuselessatthinkingofaname · 17/03/2018 19:47

I think it's the weather again - dull, shite days and we can't get out the same . Went for a walk in the snow this afternoon as I was obsessing with NC today .

gingergenius · 17/03/2018 19:51

We've missed you @Basseting hope it's not too draining xxx

NK1cf53daaX127805d4fd5 · 17/03/2018 20:02

I'm so sick of the weather. I am having mother hassle now. I am beginning to think I'm the common denominator Confused

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seshi · 17/03/2018 20:09

We all felt like this a few weeks ago when the original beast from the east hot and wet were snowed in! That's when I broke my NC and went apeshit on him on what's app.... Sad

Surely there's not another full moon?

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NK1cf53daaX127805d4fd5 · 17/03/2018 20:10

Remember Belonger you said about your NC, that he makes you feel like your hard to love. My mother makes me feel like that. In fact she makes me feel like I'm even hard to like.

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seshi · 17/03/2018 20:10

Stupid text why have I just typed hot and wet...!???? Blush

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Basseting · 17/03/2018 20:19

Seshi he wouldnt cross the street to put me out if i was on fire.
Unless I was offering sex of course...
Ds will help with WhatsApp tomorrowo hopefully

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seshi · 17/03/2018 20:22

@basseting he sounds like such a shit....

Hope you can endure tonight... X

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NK1cf53daaX127805d4fd5 · 17/03/2018 20:26

Sending lots of strength and endurance Basseting

Teensandfuture · 17/03/2018 20:38

Weather is really awful but there's a silver lining!
It's a weekend and so no need to get to work and back in this mayhem, also is an excuse to stay in and do nothing apart watching scifi films on Netflix in a very cosy warm living room. Feel great, I needed quite simple day to recharge the batteries..

Bassetting you need to try changing dynamics, at the end of the day it's his kids and you're separated, he needs to start taking them to his place. Explain in layman's terms that you need at least half a day here and there to yourself, to get rest in order to be a good parent.Where's your ME time?? Hugs ((()))

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Teensandfuture · 17/03/2018 20:48

Well done Oldbrook
Love yourself, not him!

NK1cf53daaX127805d4fd5 · 17/03/2018 21:02

Really great progress Oldbrook and lol at pawing the blonde! Teens is right you're virtually unrecognisable in a few months. You are amazing.

My counsellor was saying that sometimes when you start a separation you start to look at other aspects of your life and question them. It could be why work and my relationship with my mother are also under the microscope. I don't know but it's very hurtful when you see your mother lavishing affection on your kids but you feel they don't even like you.