The Fabulous Crown wearing cafe. No contact thread part 9...

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Hello ladies for anyone attempting, going through or wanted to try No Contact. We don't judge on here... Just lots of lovely support and advice... Come join us

Evening ladies
Please include me in WhatsApp group too - thanks.

NK ooo excited at your drunken snog. No need to feel the slightest bit of guilt about stbexh. I think the guys likes you too and agree with teens. Chat but as it comes up say you are in the midst of xyz. I am actually really pleased this happened. It shows you there are men out there interested in you, you can have physical contact, you can do whatever you want. Go you!

Goodnight Basseting. Hope you are in less pain now.

Teens good luck with Ds's appointment.

Oldbrook - I think your August idea was good. Hopefully by then a friendship will be possible.

A blog etc sounds awesome

Last night when i messaged trueNC I used a different phone asking if it was still his number. He replied not confirming but just asking who it was but as soon as I said, radio silence. So... I know he hides away, blocks out his Mum/sisters etc but that was a deliberate ignore. If it was no longer his phone wouldn't the person say 'No it us not TrueNC' he has in the past given his phibe to his son but i think that may be me grasping at straws. So.. I am now totally confused as to whether he played me all those months. He was lovely though. I am ok though tbh. Like a final nail in the coffin. Sad but nothing more I can do. I am ok though. No panic, still eating etc.

Aww anxious I'm sorry he's shit.
He's not lovely because he's not communicating in a decent manner.

It's difficult but maybe you need that final event to get clarity and realise you are BETTER than this and BETTER than him.

Thanks teens honestly everything was great then he went to see his family and came back weird. He said something had happened then disappeared. How can he not just give me an explanation? It is so frustrating that we cannot force people to act as we believe to be moral/fair etc. After that I then sent a massive rant. Using phrases I knew would trigger him but nothing. I will leave it now and I agree maybe that was it.
I love how you still have faith in men. I find that very hard atm.

I am better than him. I know this. Thanks Teens x

No wonder you are confused Anxious. I would be too. Is NC lookalike still messaging You?

No need to worry about the kisser he didn't respond to my message! One less thing to worry about!

basseting I want to see the newborn lambs in their see through plastic coats !!

Yes lookalike still messaging NK and asking to meet. But just a bit wary plus not in the mood. The man I was meant to be going out with Saturday has disappeared. He always does this. Then will send me something tomorrow evening or Saturday and then I say no out of principal at asking me too late.
Ah the man may answer still but glad it isn't even a thing to effect you. Still had a nice snog are you ok tonight?

Ladies I just read this

"You are going to be happy" said life "but first I'll make you strong"

Oh I love that Anxious very powerful. You are right to be wary of lookalike. Make him work for the meeting a bit more.

I'm okay this evening. Still not best pleased with my behaviour but not bothered/affected if he messages or not!

Glad you are ok NK

Thanks very much Ravens. How are you?

Thanks for asking. Calmer today, no stalking, getting my head round the idea this may really be it. He may just find life less stressful not having to fit me in as well. Which is sad, but nothing I can do about that.

Life has returned to what it was before I met him but after ex left. It’s ok, bit lonely, I get a bit sad - but sometimes I sort of forget he came along. We’re both functioning adults whose partners walked out on us, we can cope, we can manage on our own - but my life was much more fun with him in it (and I think his was too) Oh well - continue NC until at least day 30 then reassess.

My book from Amazon has arrived - can’t believe I’m admitting to buying this! But apparently it’s more about building you up so that whether or not they come back you’re ok!

NK please don't think badly of yourself. Honestly you had some much deserved fun. It was only a drinken kiss! Glad you are not bothered whether he contacts or not.

ravens well done on not sm stalking. I know how hard that pull is. Most of the men i know just want an easy life. Keep going for your 30 days.

Hello ladies just had a lovely night out with my girlfriend... Feeling fab.... So am I sorting out the what's app group...?

Sounds like a very hard situation Ravens. It's very hard when we feel they would have a nicer life with us. Ssh don't tell anyone but I'm tempted to buy the book too!

Ravens I think you said this today about my post BUT your last post could be me saying this :

"Life has returned to what it was before I met him but after ex left. It’s ok, bit lonely, I get a bit sad - but sometimes I sort of forget he came along." This is the sad bit - it's almost like I imagined him now . I wonder if he even thinks of me a bit.

You can admit to anything on here ravens! Don't be embarrassed. Hope the book helps. Let is know what you think.

I here a lot of people talking about why men love bitches but read an extract and wasn't iverly impressed. Has anyone read it?

Hear* i am sorry i can type but phone changes everything

We all should write a book we'd make a fortune

Are them quotes from the bitch book Oldbrook? They are very good. I think from the conversation