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What would you do? He's married.

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window · 06/05/2007 12:02

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Freckle · 06/05/2007 12:03

How much fun will that be for his wife?

fortyplus · 06/05/2007 12:03

How would you feel if he was your dh? Tell him he's a prat.

hatrick · 06/05/2007 12:04

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Malaleche · 06/05/2007 12:04

Put yourself in his wife's shoes and imagine how you'd feel.

fortyplus · 06/05/2007 12:04

Actually, on second thought, tell him that you'd appreciate having a male friend, but you'd like to discuss it with his wife first to make sure she doesn't mind

PeterAndreFanCLub · 06/05/2007 12:04

course he is interested you daft bint

do not haev an affair

Twinkie1 · 06/05/2007 12:05

I hope his wife finds out and comes and smacks you in the mouth to be honest - if us women can't respect other women's relationships what hops is there left???

And what a tosser he must be to want to cheat on his wife - sex or not it would be cheating.

sar123 · 06/05/2007 12:06

OMG. Do as you would be done by. How would that make YOU feel if he was your husband? Are you so desperate you need to "have some fun" whatever that means with a married man? Don't you deserve better?

hatrick · 06/05/2007 12:06

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compo · 06/05/2007 12:07

"What would you do?"

Find an unattached an and leave this one to his wife

DelGirl · 06/05/2007 12:07

A definite no no imo. I wouldn't even give it a 2nd thought. Apart from his poor wife, who would ever want to be with someone who did that to someone else? Something i'll never understand, sorry.

compo · 06/05/2007 12:07

man

fortyplus · 06/05/2007 12:08

It'll wreck your working relationship, too. Don't even think about it.

window · 06/05/2007 12:08

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shonaspurtle · 06/05/2007 12:09

Don't kid yourself that if there's no sex involved it doesn't really count... there are other kinds of infidelity that can be just as devastating.

Why would you risk causing pain to someone for just a bit of fun? Leave well alone.

PeterAndreFanCLub · 06/05/2007 12:09

what a pile of shit
ring up his wife adn ask her if she is aware of hteir separation

littlemissbossy · 06/05/2007 12:10

Of course he'll wants sex with you, don't be stupid
All depends on whether you can cope with the constant rejection when he goes back home to shag his wife - that won't be much fun will it?
I can understand you feel flattered by the attention but are you really that desperate?

window · 06/05/2007 12:10

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littlemissbossy · 06/05/2007 12:11

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they're separated but still live together - haha - that old chestnut

CookieBear · 06/05/2007 12:12

"I need to meet up with him to discuss some confidential issues in a work capacity..."

Yeah, right!!?? who are you trying to kid.

You know exactly what you're doing.

Women like you make me very ..

You are both a couple of pratts

shonaspurtle · 06/05/2007 12:12

"He has said all the usual stuff about being seperated but they're still living together"

God, talk about massive warning sirens going off

fortyplus · 06/05/2007 12:13

Well in that case enjoy his company when you're working with him but don't let it go any further and make sure he knows that you would find it inappropriate.

SoapOnARope · 06/05/2007 12:15

you have to ask!?

fortyplus · 06/05/2007 12:16

I think you've got the message Not one person saying 'Yeah - go for it'.

window · 06/05/2007 12:19

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