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Still supporting after DH died ( Juan et al)

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bookbook · 06/03/2018 12:47

Realised I was the one nearest the end of the thread , thought I'd better get one up and running

previous thread HERE

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SelenaValentina · 13/04/2018 12:16

Hope all went/goes well 84, and well done with bin men tango.
Hope DS2 OK ,Willow.
Horse, hope back improving.
Grrr, squirrels, hope they did/do turn up and did/do a proper job.
No doubt you're as busy as usual, book?

Grey, mizzly day, pouring earlier. Been out for breakfast with friend, then going to a Santander 'How to Avoid Fraud' meeting. Seems very appropriate at the moment Grin. We get a 'free gift' for going. Hmmm - any guesses? Free app? Cup of coffee?

bookbook · 13/04/2018 12:54

Afternoon all!
84 - hope that CT scan goes well, and it gets sorted pronto. You must have been exhausted back and fro with bins and bikes!
I feel a bit sad that you have to make your own cake ....
Willow - ouchy for DS2 , burns are not nice, but hope its not too bad. And I hope your ouchy finger is healing okay too.
Chasing - mmm service men always seem to be late, unless you are #1 on the days list, when they then tell you they have to cancel due to an emergency or something ( bitter voice of experience)
Selena - free pen! Grin . Berlin sounds good - just a month or two to wait :)
yep, been busy. It was not raining today!!!!!! So, I have been all morning at the allotment , forking over , barrowing manure and picking veg. Have had a quick sit down for lunch , then need to get on with ironing .Still a load of washing to put out, but I don't suppose it will dry much - I can but hope. What a glamorous life
Hope everyone has a good day - the iron is calling ....

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Chasingsquirrels · 13/04/2018 13:02

Yup an emergency flood elsewhere book! I was first on the list.
To be fair I've never had problems with them before, just a bit annoying that they didn't let me know. Never mind it can be rearranged for another time.

Car is done and all fine and friend coming to pick me up and drop me at garage to collect it shortly.

MrsJonesAndMe · 13/04/2018 13:13

Quick pop in to check up on you all. Sounds like you're all being busy.

It does seem a bit of a shame that you have to bake your own cake 84 but I have taken great delight in doing myself a M&M gravity cake one year Grin

We've successfully got new school shoes and polos but the next size up in trousers are way too big Hmm

Catch up tonight once all goes quiet x

Willow2017 · 13/04/2018 15:07

Afternoon all.
All jobs done, shopping and got tea for today and tomorrow and some home cured bacon at butchers has to be better than the almost see through stuff in supermarkets!
Had long coffee break and chat time with ds2 as well.

Need to book guinea pig/s in for thier hols before its too late. May have 2 by then😁

Need to juggle washing round as too damp and foggy to put out (again😠)

My books arrived so thats something for later.

Book busy as usual you must be fit as a flea all that digging and carting manure about!

Ds2 got me a birthday card for next week... its a guinea pig lying back on a sofa with a party hat and a beer in one hand "hic, hic hooray"😀 its hilarious but unfortunately i havent been in that 'condition' for a long time 😁
84 i will be baking my own cake too. Make sure yours is your favourite and go to town on it😉

SelenaValentina · 13/04/2018 20:46

Just quickly. The Santander fraud thing was really good - anyone can go, not just their customers - so would recommend if one near you. It was in library with coffee, tea, homemade biscuits provided. Yes a pen! Good handouts and fraud action card. Pack of mints. No death by PowerPoint thankfully. Covered phone, email and text fraud in about 50 minutes.

All common sense but backed up well by real events and how easy to be taken in.

It's raining again!

Willow2017 · 13/04/2018 23:13

Oh Lordy now I've done it! Grin
We are off to see 'Rampage' tomorrow in 'isense' thats going to be an experience Grin Went mad and booked the posh seats too!

Its raining here too Selena very wearing.

MrsJonesAndMe · 14/04/2018 07:43

Enjoy it Willow

I can sort of see the sun!!!!!

Happy birthday 84 - hope that you've got a lovely cake and enjoy your drinks with your friends. Cake Flowers Wine

Willow2017 · 14/04/2018 07:51

Happy birthday 84 have a lovely day and enjoy your drinks party.🍹🍾🎂

84CharingCrossRoad · 14/04/2018 07:56

Thank you. Am a little on edge as Wilf is on his way to London on his own.... He was very nervous last night...

Willow2017 · 14/04/2018 08:24

The fact he has still gone despite his nerves is a good sign. I am sure he will be fine. Try not to worry.

bookbook · 14/04/2018 08:40

Morning all
it is almost sunny here .
Happy Birthday 84 - and enjoy your cake . Wilf was bound to be nervous, but I bet it will give him a great sense of achievement when he has done it .
Willow - enjoy !
Selena - sounds good, will look out to see if it heads this way :)
Off out today - firstly to the big Saturday market and lunch, then carrying on to DD1 to (hopefully) finish sorting out the playframe for DGS, in time for the nice weather.
Take care everyone - saying a few more prayers today, I think .

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Chasingsquirrels · 14/04/2018 08:51

Happy Birthday 84 & I hope Wilf has a good trip.

Sounds like another full day for you book, dgs will love the frame.

Willow2017 · 14/04/2018 11:03

Its sunny! Only just but its better than nothing.😁
Have washed out the bird feeders and left to dry and run the Hoover round and put wash out ( hopeful sun will stay)
Chased ds1 into shower and ds2 cleaning up the hay mess in c.u.stairs! If he blocks hoover i will swing for him just fought with it to empty it its a pia to put back together again.
Good luck with the frame Book mind your fingers😉

Horsemad · 14/04/2018 11:56

My back is better, thank goodness. I have been really tetchy with it this week!

Am off to watch DS play footy this afternoon & going to some horse trials tomorrow. 🙂

Happy Birthday 84 hope you have a lovely day with lots of celebrating! Well done to Wilf for tackling London - I hate the tube & have never been on it on my own Blush

SelenaValentina · 14/04/2018 13:05

Happy Birthday 84 and fingers crossed for Wilf, he'll hopefully be fine.

Barnaby tortoise is out. Hurray!

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Chasingsquirrels · 14/04/2018 13:21

Lovely here.
Went for dog walk with a friend wearing my big winter coat - big mistake! Soon took it off, then when we were coming to the end realised that the lead had fallen out of my pocket so had to retrace our steps. Did find it though so that's good.

Just been cleaning and have taken the sofa covers off to wash. Tempted to vax the lounge carpet as well! It must be spring Grin.

Out for a meal with a couple of friends tonight and ds2 back from his dad tomorrow tea time.

Chasingsquirrels · 14/04/2018 13:22

Yay on tortoise Selena

Chasingsquirrels · 14/04/2018 16:54

Lounge carpet vax'd!!
Unfortunately didn't have much solution left so had to nip out half way through, but at least that gave my arms a rest - it's like a work out.
Have to wait for it to dry a bit now before I move everything back in from the playroom - and then I'll do in there tomorrow and get the other sofa cushions washed.

Beautiful afternoon here.

Willow2017 · 14/04/2018 17:57

Well that was a good bit of escapism😁 loud but fun. Both the Rock and JDM and a giant gorilla, wolf and alligator, lots of stunts and explosions what more could a woman ask for😀

MrsJonesAndMe · 14/04/2018 19:57

Hello All

Squirrels have you had an update from DS1? I too put a coat on this morning and didn't need it after a while!

Hope you've had a lovely day 84 and that Wilf had a successful day in London.

Horse I'm not keen on London either, but have done it on my own. Glad your back is better and hope the footie went well.

That sounds erm.... interesting Willow Grin

How did the day go book Everyone still have all of their fingers?

We had a busy day and I've made a blanket plan to start my own complete blanket Shock eeek! Only 80 small squares to do Grin

Selena, he's so cute!

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bookbook · 14/04/2018 20:36

Evening all!
Home safe and sound, playframe all done . DH and son in law did all the tough/heavy duty stuff - me and DD did the running around and fetching. And keeping DGS from trying to use it :)
good to hear the back is better Horse
Chasing - same here- wrong clothes, and it got very warm and sunny in the garden. It is amazing how a bit of sun = spring cleaning!
Selena - he survived, and hasn't had to grow gills :)
MrsJ - will head over and look ...
Willow - so a gorilla, an alligator and others - realistic plot line then? Grin
Have a lovely evening everyone

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Willow2017 · 14/04/2018 21:00

Book
Of course it was realistic! Scientists messing with genetics to make weaponiaed animals on a space statuon. Goes wrong. The mixture ejected to earth in boxes, breaks open near a tame gorilla, a wild wolf pack and into a river. Scientist sends a sonar signal to attract said animals (after a bit lot of carnage) to try to cover her escape. The 3 stars give gorilla antidote and he helps save the day. Totally realistic. 😀 cgi was awesome, 'George' the gorrilla hilarious (signing and giving 'the middle finger to Dwaine) and JDM as gorgeous with that twinkle in his eye as possible, loved it sheer escapism.😁

Had to take kids to puzza hut cos a big box of popcorn not enough for them! Still sunny coming home amazing!
Glad your fingers survived. Lucky dgs.
Squirrels i have that powder stuff in cupboard to do carpet and keep putting it off, tsk tsk.
Selena he is cute. Glad he survived the floods without needing a boat.
Horse glad your back is better. How did footie go this week?
MrsJ from beginner to crazy crochet lady in a couple of weeks! What colour is your blanket going to be?

MrsJonesAndMe · 14/04/2018 21:18

Rainbow....

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Chasingsquirrels · 14/04/2018 22:11

Just back from meal out at the local pub with a couple of friends, really lovely evening - lots of laughing.

Ds1 texted on Thu evening after he arrived and seemed okay, and I've heard nothing since - which either means he is fine or can't charge his phone Smile.

Having some cuddles with Charlie before bed.

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