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Still supporting after DH died ( Juan et al)

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bookbook · 06/03/2018 12:47

Realised I was the one nearest the end of the thread , thought I'd better get one up and running

previous thread HERE

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Willow2017 · 30/03/2018 11:17

Morning all.
Bucketing rain and very windy here. Lazy morning slept late after waking up at usual time and dozing off again.

Aching all over so not rushing to go to town yet. Need some bits and pieces (and Easter eggs😀) and wont get tomorrow as ex coming over for ds2's birthday.

Sounds like a full house 84 and a nice family get together.

We will be going to visit my aunt at some point over hols. Need to pick a day she doesnt have something on😀 89 this year and goes to crafting club, pensioners clubs, coffee mornings, monthly meals out with her pensioner friends etc. She has a better social life than me (which tbh wouldnt be hard) She bakes for all these things and last week made 60 scones for a charity fundraiser and another coffee morning then wonders why she is knackered 😁 hope i have half her energy if i reach her age😀

Have a nice day folks despite the weather.

84CharingCrossRoad · 30/03/2018 11:46

My talk is at the friends and neighbours group in the local chapel Hall.

MrsJonesAndMe · 30/03/2018 19:08

Ah, thought you've been constructing Grin

I've finished square number 11, so guess I will keep going.

We've had a good day, but my goodness it's wet!

Hope you all have had a good day.

Willow that's what keeps her young!

Just about to get the small to sleep and then watch a bit of telly. Early start tomorrow as off out for the day - rain rain, please keep away!!!

84CharingCrossRoad · 30/03/2018 19:24

Now about to watch The Silent Child with my Mum. I've seen it but I want her to watch it too.

Chasingsquirrels · 30/03/2018 20:23

Got the boys helping me sorting stuff out in the garden this morning then we all came in around midday and it started to rain. Lots more to do but a good start.
Lazy afternoon, did some ironing and watched TV then over to my parents this evening for tea and cards, mum's brother and wife staying and they are all coming to us tomorrow evening.

Mucked out the hens and collected the eggs this morning and had 4 - must be Easter!

You deserved a lie in Willlow.
Hope you get decent weather tomorrow for your day out cake.
Haven't seen that film 84.

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Willow2017 · 30/03/2018 20:38

Evening all
Did the shopping (rain got heavier and heavier!) Went for coffee and had apple and salted caramel muffin for a change😲

Decorated ds2's cake its not perfect as usual but he will like it its got reeces pieces and maltesers and choc fingers😀
Watching the Kate Bush documentary. Absolutely adored her in the 80s have her albums still. I really need to get a record player bought have money sitting there for it. They just look so stark and souless these days and of course arent called that these days old fogey . Would i be sad to get an old fashioned stereo system😀😀

mrsj hope weather is improved by tomorrow no fun going out in wet and cold.

Still cold and wet. Typical for bank hols.

Willow2017 · 30/03/2018 20:41

X posted Squirrels good on the hens they must like thier new house 😀

SelenaValentina · 30/03/2018 20:54

Oh hugs, 84 and hope talk went well. Be good to have a houseful?

I'm on phone so can't flit back and forth to see who's post fits what, so I'm not ignoring anyone honest. Memo to self: make notes.

Sorted out garage door today, the last on my major project list. The guru guy was lovely but about 5' - felt odd as I wanted to keep bending down to his level! I'm only 5'5" myself! Anyway it will be here in approx 6 weeks, by which time there will have been (another) major garage clear-up.

And sorry, gang, but been a lovely if chilly day here. No doubt in a few weeks the tables will be turned.

bookbook · 30/03/2018 21:16

Evening all
well, we have had a dry day , maybe a bit cold , but not complaining. Had a lovely walk through a local woods, done a bit of housework , and a lot of blanket constructing . 's

Sorry to hear about all the rain - typical !
MrsJ - I am constructing a Chernobyl, but I don't think yours will be in a kit yet ( I got it over a week ago) . Have a lovely day, fingers crossed on the weather
Willow - all ready for DS2's birthday then. Hope you have a good day.
We still have a record deck, but it is in the loft, along with all our old vinyl.
I don't buy Easter eggs any more, I buy little 'treats' instead , though DGS does have a little chocolate ladybird along with some Lego mini figures .
Chasing - the hens have obviously settled in well , even with coloured highlights!
Selena - I think it's Happy Birthday for tomorrow? And a hair do if I remember aright. All done and dusted on all the updating too - when is the patio finished?
84 and Horse - hope you have a good weekend
Gearing up for tomorrow - we are off to DD's to get back to mantling a climbing frame/swing thing that got put off the other week- wish us luck Grin
Have a good evening everyone

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Willow2017 · 30/03/2018 22:00

Book i think i still have the record playing bit from my old stereo but nothing to plug it into as i got rid of the huge speakers. Dont know if it would fit modern speakers. Would be good if it did.

Have put banners up and blown up baloons😀need to get the pressies down from attic and find the card to write🤔 its in a 'safe place'...

Selena Happy Birthday for tomorrow too.

SelenaValentina · 30/03/2018 22:27

Thank you for remembering book yes, hair too thankfully, and Willow - hope DS's birthday goes well. After posting and reading all your lovely replies I no longer felt as tearful about it all.

Patio finished, not to go on it until Tuesday (at which point no doubt have monsoons for weeks, but have been so lucky with weather) whilst some technical magic happens to turn joint filler into resin.

Happily my little garage door man didn't get too technical but crikey, what choices!! Steel finish, wood finish, real wood, single layer, double layer, 16 colours, 3 textures etc etc. My mind boggled.

Chasingsquirrels · 31/03/2018 08:39

🎂🍰🎂🍰🎂🍰🎂🍰🎂
Birthday greetings for you Selena, hope you have a lovely lunch with your DS and his partner.
🎂🍰🎂🍰🎂🍰🎂🍰🎂

Horsemad · 31/03/2018 08:47

Happy Birthday Selena and Willow's DS. 🎂🍰

I am having a relaxing break, the weather's a bit iffy but it's just nice to be off.
Went to a quiz last night, came joint first & lost on tiebreak, grrr.
DS playing footy today in our home village (he plays for a team based 10 miles away), so we can walk to this one! ☺️

Chasing - contented hens ☺️

Have a good day all!

Chasingsquirrels · 31/03/2018 08:51

Oh yes and for DS2 Willow.
🎂🎂🎂🎂🎂🎂🎂🎂🍰🎂🎂

bookbook · 31/03/2018 09:14

Morning all!
Raining when I got up , but it's stopped now - hope it doesn't put off the build again. Fingers crossed
ooh Horse - how infuriating , so close to winning! But nice to have a relaxing weekend .
Happy Birthday to Selena Flowers and Willows DS Cake
Off to get ready for the DIY
Have a great day everyone

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Willow2017 · 31/03/2018 10:35

Morning all.
Bucketing rain first thing, then sleet on way home now snow!

Happy birthday Selena have a lovely day. 🎂🍹

Ds2 over the moon with his surprise lego. He is currently sprawled on floor putting it together😀 that will be him for the next hour or two.

Going to make bacon butties for late breakfast in too much of a rush before swimming nobody wanted to get up in this weather😀

Well done Horse shame you got pipped at the post. Hope weather ok for footie.

Hope weather is good to you all. mrsj hope you get a nice day out.

Willow2017 · 31/03/2018 15:23

Arghhhhh whole post plus photos gone!

Cake went down well😀
Lego thing is amazing.
Ex stayed ages and as well as doing stuff with kids told them exactly what he expects of them when i am working!
Was a good day all round.

Still supporting  after DH died ( Juan et al)
Still supporting  after DH died ( Juan et al)
Horsemad · 31/03/2018 17:07

Aww Willow, what a gorgeous cake, bet your DS loved it Smile

Glad he (and you) have had a lovely day, enjoy the rest of it.

DS's team lost Sad it was 'one of those days'. Anyway, that's done now & on to the next one!

Willow2017 · 31/03/2018 17:28

Thanks Horse the choc fingers hide a multitude of sins😉
Shame about the match but there's always next time.

SelenaValentina · 31/03/2018 20:04

Willow, what a super cake and great you've had a good day Smile.
Oh, Horse, not your time at the moment from sound of things.

I started my day with a flat tyre Shock. So instead of going to gym I went to car dealer, thinking I could lounge about, drink their lovely coffee then meander off to gym for a shower (and more coffee Blush). However, the service people were busy so I got a brand new courtesy car and off I went to gym, then hairdresser (at last), picked up friend (now thankfully improving with 'not' DVT, cellulitis, ulcer etc), then picked up own car and we went for late lunch/tea. Home to find DS and DIL sorted front of garage as far as possible for new door and skip been collected.

All in all then, a very good day. Luckily I have tyre insurance so cost me just £25 - and they washed and valeted the car too. And it stayed fine. Grin.

A very big thank you everyone for the kind birthday wishes - it really is so appreciated and - warming the right word? Feels very supportive anyway Grin.

84CharingCrossRoad · 31/03/2018 20:14

Happy Birthday Selena..... Cake

Willow2017 · 31/03/2018 20:23

Selena
What a good day for you too apart (from the tyre)
Wish someone would valet my car😀
What stars ds and dil are sorting garage for you.

Quiet pm here slobbing in front of tv. Still have to do tea dishes but not got the motivation yet. I washed grill pan and top oven and glasses on big oven doors earlier. Need to do top oven glass but not tonight.

MrsJonesAndMe · 31/03/2018 20:32

Hello all

Birthday wishes for Selena and for DS Willow that is an awesome cake. Did you have cake Selena? What a pain about the tyre. Glad you got your hair done and cannot believe you're doing another project!

We had a glorious day out - the weather wasn't great, but 99% dry and DS had a blast and no complaining in the car!

Horse it's a shame that your team lost, but hope the rest of the weekend goes more smoothly.

Ah, how do you find time for it all book? I've struggled to get square 2 started today!

How was the film 84? Did your mum enjoy it? Does Wilf come home for the holiday at all?

Four eggs! The hens are doing well Squirrels Hope your evening of cards go well.

I had the best "present" this morning. DH got up with DS and sorted him, made the picnic, emptied and restacked the dishwasher before getting me up - leaving me to only get myself sorted.

Willow2017 · 31/03/2018 21:58

Wow mrsj that was a great start to your day. Glad weather was ok and you all had fun.
Thanks re cake both you and Selena (as i said to Horse the fingers hide my slightly uneven cakes and messy buttercream😀) ds2 had another slice at teatime so must be ok. The peanutty reeces pieces actually taste nice with the rest of the cake!

Forced myself to do dishes and clean up.

Trying not to think about work tomorriw. Apparently its never busy easter sunday so fingers crossed its just normal day. I always feel inadequate and watched on sundays by the 2 usual suspects. I fight the urge to leave constantly😀

SelenaValentina · 31/03/2018 22:39

Great stuff by your DH, MrsJ!
Willow, try giving 'the terrible two' names. Bill and Ben, Mutt and Jeff, Ugly Sisters or whatever suits them. And imagine them in curlers, looking like 'Fag Ash Lil', or the Les Dawson parodies ? At least then you could giggle to yourself?

DH used to recommend thinking of idiots like that sitting on the toilet 😂.