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[Dez85]

Evening!!

I am feeling so angry right now!!

Cut a long story short, my boyfriend was on my laptop earlier and it crashed and wouldn't reload so he just left it.... I've just loaded it back up and his Facebook comes up, still logged on!

Anyway, he's on his phone right now at the other end of the sofa, & I'm on my laptop... I can see that he's just 'waved' at 5 women, 3 of which have replied and he's having conversations with!! Every time he sends a message, he deletes it so the convo disappears. But little does he know, I'm watching them pop up and reading every word.

I know I shouldn't be invading his privacy & I have never done this before but bloody hell...

What an absolute C**t. Or am I over reacting?

Don't get involved in any games. He won't get it, he will just turn things round and say you were a weirdo stalker type - make himself feel justified and superior. Best just to dump and block - but personally I'd tell him I'd seen all his messages and didn't want to be with someone who lies before I did.

Well done for dumping his arse op! Everyone deserves better than this bloke!

Hope you've got something nice planned for tonight x

Don't catfish him; and certainly don't hack any of his accounts...

Blocking him and completely disengaging is the right thing to do.

Sorry you're going through this.

I'd be tempted to cat fish and not go too mad but when it came to pic swapping I'd say I've only the one on this device and my lying cheating ex is in it and send him a pic with both of you. Fuck him.

I wouldn't tell him the reason. And I wouldn't give him clues. I'd tell him I didn't fancy him anymore, or that you've realised you can do better. Make him feel as crap as he's made you feel. Sorry you're going through this OP. He's a vile man. (And you really can do better!)

I can't believe you didn't give him his coat and keys last night love, really would not have been able to sleep next to a slime ball like that.

glad to hear he's dumped, even if he hasn't worked it out just yet.

If this shows one thing about him, it's that he is actually too dense to date. he is thicker than mince.

Slimy little bastard.

Did you tell him it’s over? He hasn’t got stuff at your house, has he?!

Ok i apologise for calling them slappers but I was angry last night!

I don't think you needed to apologise (they sound like slappers) and stuff anyone who lost sympathy for you as a result. Like that matters.

How do they sound like slappers?

Ah yes. The pearl clutching married brigade thinking they are superior enough to call another woman a slapper for daring to have sex with someone.

Well done for a dignified exit.

Some women on here disgust me.

Man behaves like a bastard and the women are called slappers.

She's already said sorry for calling them slappers, calm down

They sound like slappers from what was said about them.

That's my opinion. Some women on here disgust me too...that's life. Get over it.

‘Pearl clutching married brigade*

That sentence alone speaks volumes about the writer.

What makes them slappers, then?

She took long enough to decide to get rid and that speaks volumes about her.

She apologised...she just found out her bf was cheating, she is allowed to have a reaction. It has been acknowledged, let's move on and support the OP...how horrible for her!!

I was asking Sandy not the OP.

She took long enough to decide to get rid and that speaks volumes about her

Suggests she's human and was in shock, trying to process the sleazy truth at odds with what she previously thought was her nice boyfriend. Unlike some of the voyeuristic reptiles on this thread.

Ignore the GF. Either sour grapes or guilt talking.

Knowing someone has a girlfriend/ wife and sleeping with them regardless doesn’t make someone a slapped. It makes them a selfish person with no more morals than a cat- male or female.

Omg he's such a sleaze!!!!

Sorry just got back from work & read all of the replies.

Okay, I called them slappers in the heat of the moment last night, after I found out they had been messaging him... it was just a word that came into my head as I typed in a rage... I've apologised.... but to be honest, aren't slappers women who sleep with a lot of men? I also stated, that a few years ago, they did leave a club with a different man nearly every week - they are also messaging MY boyfriend. (I mean ex boyfriend) so... sorry, if I could change it to lovely girls I would. I don't know who is to blame, them, him, both.. but who cares now.

Sorry, didn't realise taking 16 hours to kick his arse out was a long time - does speak volumes for me!! 🙄

Anyway, back to the original topic of my cheating boyfriend - blocked him this morning & haven't heard since.... probably round one if the slappers lovely girls houses now....
No, he has his children this weekend so it's a weekend we don't see each other anyway as luckily enough, we hadn't yet introduced our children to each other... (was in the pipeline) - he used to come over in the evenings when my son went to bed & we then spent every other weekend together.

He doesn't have many things at mine, other than a couple of items of clothing, toiletries etc. so hopefully I just won't hear from him again!! 🙌🏻

People type things in anger i don't know why everyone's giving OP a hard time - like you've never called someone names in the heat of the moment when you've been wronged!