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[Dez85]

Evening!!

I am feeling so angry right now!!

Cut a long story short, my boyfriend was on my laptop earlier and it crashed and wouldn't reload so he just left it.... I've just loaded it back up and his Facebook comes up, still logged on!

Anyway, he's on his phone right now at the other end of the sofa, & I'm on my laptop... I can see that he's just 'waved' at 5 women, 3 of which have replied and he's having conversations with!! Every time he sends a message, he deletes it so the convo disappears. But little does he know, I'm watching them pop up and reading every word.

I know I shouldn't be invading his privacy & I have never done this before but bloody hell...

What an absolute C**t. Or am I over reacting?

Well rid!

I should mention the police caution relating to screen shots of Facebook is the British Police (see my previous message over the page).

that sounds ridiculous happy

you get threats and they arrest you for messages 10 years ago?

this country is messed up

Oh wow what a creep I agree with others dump him. don't tell him why just say you don't do it for me anymore lets call it a day. He is humiliating you he will never change why pull him up he's showed you he's a liar not to be trusted. get out before he cheats for real he is likely to if he's desperate enough to keep contacting different women. I've worked with men like this they can't keep it their pants.

My boyfriend of 6 years did this to me, was sat in my bed whilst I was showering texting girls about what he was doing (at 'home') he fell asleep whilst I was drying my hair and his phone was on charge in front of me, I had a nosey and saw them, he woke up as I was looking, never seen anyone move so fast in my life, even if I'd not seen the messages I would have known from the reaction

Certainly is GabsAlot - though messages and screen shot I took were around 2 years ago. At least police said they were classing it as 'domestic' - they said had it been a friend or work colleague...

OP hope you've had a better day today and things have settled down a little.

Blimey @HappyDay5 how awful!!

Sorry you went through this, thanks for tbt heads up!

Glad you read it @Dez85 - at least something good might come out of my 'predicament'. Nothing to stop you dropping a few 'hints' to him if ever you feel the need - though he sounds a little slow on the uptake!

If you do decide to dump him properly you should bring his ego down a peg or two and say you just don’t fancy him or feel sexually attracted to him anymore 😇

Agree with Coffee. Tell him he's shit in bed.

Yeah I agree with an ego hit by saying he’s not intellectually or sexually interesting enough to bother with.