This is going to hurt

[WelshBoris]

I shouldn't be posting because it's too raw but I've got no-one else to talk to.

Boyfriend, been with him for nearly a year, I adore him so does my DD.

He was out drinking all day yesterday, I met him in our local before going to town with the girls. He was kissing me, telling me he loved me.

I was going home to his house, got in about 1.30. My key wouldn't work. His was in the other side.

I shouted, he came to the window and let me in.

I walked in the living room and there was a white thong on the floor. I walked out of the house, round the back to see some old slapper clambering over the wall.

He was drunk, he's sorry etc etc

The pain is physical, I feel like someone is kicking me in the stomach over and over again,

I close my eyes and see him in the bathroom with his head in his hands, then I see me, him and my DD in bed together yesterday morning trying to give the biggest hugs.

Please please someone tell me this isn't my fault and the pain will go

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I am so terribly sorry this has happened. if you need to get away, your welcome to Worthing. Your so very beautiful, articulate, funny, witty, foreign anything you want - to talk to utter random profanity - anything , just mail creamy custardo at hotmail dot com.

Boris, I'm glad you are starting to feel angry about this.

He is an utter cock. He has unwittingly done you a huge favour. You are worth so much more, and, you could easily get so much more. You are gorgeous, witty, intelligent, caring and everyone loves you - thats saying something.

Never ever feel sorry for trusting someone. You did right - he did wrong.

The gut-punched feeling will fade in time, you will start to see him for the sad old man he always was, and, your gorgeous DD will be fine, because she has a fantastic mother to support her and love her.

Love you loads lady.

xxxx

if you dont bin him i may have to for yo

Oh WB, I'm so sorry he turned out to be a frog. Is it too late to send willy severing vibes his way? What a stupid little man he is

Gosh, could you imagine if every single MNer here who was annoyed on WB's behalf sent him a grubby old bin bag or something....?

only just seen this WB - I am so sorry. As the others have said, it is not your fault and sooner or later he will realise what a huge mistake he has made. You are worth so much more and you have a lot of support here on MN - look how many people have offered you somewhere to stay.

Your DD will be fine too.

take care xxx

VVVQV - I could take a few binbags round

WB, I've only just seen this and am VERY VERY angry on your behalf. I am so sorry. What an utter, utter arse.

Bloody hell WB, so sorry to read this. What a tosspot.

No constructive advice, just angry for you.. it hurts so much when you think your child has become attached, like it's your fault - but it isn't your fault and she'll get over it just like you will.

Can you get a babysitter for a night/weekend and go paint the town red?

Oh, please do the thing with the prawns!

WB - so sorry this has happened to you. I'm not a Welsh dragon, I'm afraid, but I'll happily get off my lonely mountain and burn his arse if you like.

A woman of your quality is going to be just fine. And your dd will be fine because she has you for her Mum. x

Can you imagine if WB goes to stay with Custy!!

The language would be unimaginable!!!!

Hope you are OK WelshBoris!

LOL at prawn in his curtains! I had a friend who went to move all her stuff out of her ex's whilsy he was at work and she put lots of cat poo in the middle of his lounge carpet and rubbed his toothbrush on the toilet seat. Awful I know, but he was a twat.

Like LL said, look at all the ugly men that have stunning girlfriends and still cheat. Hugh Grant, prime example! They are ruled by their peckers, so its not your fault. And sex is just sex with no emotional attachment, not that that excuses it.

Get your tutty on,get your stilettos on and get out there and show the tossball what hes lost.

Right, I went up to get my stuff whilst DD was in nursery. He had left his key in the lock and locked the back door so I couldn't get in.

I rang him, he said he wants to drop the stuff off. I don't want DD seeing him, or us arguing so I said drop it up my mums. He wont because my 2 brothers are there. Who are both 6ft+ and built of pure Welsh meat.

So, he's bringing it here. I need the stuff tonight, it's Madisons spare inhaler, my hairdryer, phone charger and other things.

I am just going to answer the door, take the stuff then close it again.

I am not getting into a discussion with him about anything.

Thanks again for all your lovely thoughts, support and offers of a bed!!

WB, you know when you open the door to him, we're all going to be standing right behind you, don't you?

That's the plan Smaug

I admire the way you're dealing with all this, WB, you sound so strong.
He is the loser who has messed up because he couldn't keep it in his trousers at the end of the day. You will move on & get someone far better than him.

Good luck.

And we expect you to shut the door with the force of 500 women equally as pissed off as you.
And we'll chip in for a new door if needed.
Then we'll all come to yours and take you out!

Smaug that post has made me well up, it's true Boris! We are all behind you. x

And you know, Boris, your little girl will learn from her mum that NO MAN has the right to treat you like this

What a fuckwit.

Good for you for intending to open the door, take your stuff and close it again! Stay strong. 'Go Welsh Boris, go Welsh Boris'. {{{Ricki Lake styleeee}}}}

Mhamai, I'm welling up myself at the thought of all this enraged-woman-power. Dragon-breath has nothing on it!

I've had my stuff.

He said "I'm sorry I'm sorry I can't explain myself, I'm sorry"

Not half as sorry as I am.