Dh has been having an affair. He get a home in an hour. Please keep me calm.

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Found emails and a receipt for flowers. The emails are just Facebook messenger notifications so I can't read what they say but he's addressed the flowers to "my love".

I'm in with the 3 dc. I'm going to be sick.

What a pair of Cunts 😡
So sorry OP xx

Thinking of you Op! Kick the bastard out!! X

Thinking of you OP. Please be kind to yourself

Hope you are okay OP

If the password had been changed how did he get in to delete messages?

As OP sent the OW a message, and presumably is now face to face with the adulterer, OW will be rather worried right now also.

Good.

OP, just keep one thing on mind, there will be difficult days ahead, but whatever happens or you decide to do, be sure you will find a way for you and your children to be ok.

Nobody knows how strong they are until you have to fight your corner for your children.

hope all is ok. Don't let him minimise his actions or how you are feeling

Thinking of you op and wishing you strength. The pain will be unbearable and your heart will feel broken. But you and your children will be ok. Just take each minute by minute. I hope you get the truth (but doubt you will get it just yet).

Thinking of you OP. Hope you’re okay.

I'm so sorry OP

Lots of great advice on here so unload whenever you need to

Oh op I hope you're ok.

I thought fb sent an email like ' did you request to change your password' he migjt have email notifications on his phone and twigged before OP got chance to read anything.

Why are people focussing on this anyway?

What a shock for you op. Hope your ok?

That's what I was wondering RunningOutOfCharge

Stay strong OP. He doesn't deserve you, the bastard xx

RunningOutOfCharge and FubbyChucker because fb will not necessarily automatically log you out of any device you're currently log in on. So OP's H is on fb on his phone, logged in, and gets an email about password change. As he's still logged in he can delete the msgs.

This has already been covered if you RTFT.

Another one here thinking of you

It’s hideous, but you’ll get through this and you’re not alone, we’re all here for you

Running & Chucker read the thread then you’ll know. If you’re calling the OP a liar, please don’t. Just go read another thread. She doesn’t need accusations of being a troll on top of what she’s going through. And IF she was a troll then your comments just stoke the fire.

I'm so sorry OP

Keep strong! We're here for you x

Jesus. I can't even imagine. I hope you're ok xx

Oh OP, I am so sorry.

I hope your ok OP. Stay strong x

Wind your neck in Annie

I only skim read longer threads, dont like it? Tough!

There's only here calling troll. Just you