Dh has been having an affair. He get a home in an hour. Please keep me calm.

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Found emails and a receipt for flowers. The emails are just Facebook messenger notifications so I can't read what they say but he's addressed the flowers to "my love".

I'm in with the 3 dc. I'm going to be sick.

No matter what, you're stronger than you think

All the best OP. There will be lots of support here when you need it

Do you know what and the op is too early to see it, is that the relationship as she knew it is over forever. That marriage and husband are no more and may never have been what she thought. The sheer grief of threatening to leave if he doesnt admit everything, is fruitless because he is a LIAR. their marriage is a lie.
Of course it is difficult to cope at this stage and a natural reaction is to pray he will pick you and for things to be better. But they never will be as it is impossible to delete the thoughts of him and her, their sex, their intimacy. The relationship has gone. The trust has gone. The good father isnt a good father.
Eventually op, you will look back and thank the ow for showing you what a dick your husband is, and how it has given you the opportunity to meet someone who does treat you properly. One day, you will have the last laugh. I hope you are ok xxx

Sending hugs x

Good luck OP x

I'm sorry you are going through this. I wish you the best of luck. Be strong and believe in yourself.

We will be here for whatever you need op x

Its a really terrible time. It will get better though. Eventually it will get better.

I’m so sorry OP
He doesn’t deserve you. 💐

What an arsehole. Keep a cool head and start planning.

Be strong

We are here for you. Whatever you do, be kind to yourself. I wish I could give you a big hug

Goodluck op

Hope he just tells you.

Good luck OP. This is not your fault.

This is gong to be hell for OP. Holding her in my heart and prayers.

OP - whatever action you end up deciding to take, there are women on here who have been through it and advise you on any legalities you may need to deal with, and also support you through this pain.

[hugs]

I hope he gives you the answers you deserve

All here,all on your side.

Thoughts with you OP - what a prize twat.

😔

Been there and for this t shirt sadly.

You will get through this.

So sad for you OP. Stay strong x

OP, do you have someone who can come over and stay with you?

Please please don't get drawn into too much of a discussion tonight. Take some time and space. What outcome do you want etc.
Carry on now after you've just found out and you will go round in circles, with you crying, him looking like a kicked puppy and apologising and you will be non the wiser.