Ok sorry, this might be long.
Been with partner around 6 months, just moved in together. Things have been fantastic until this weekend, when his ex got in touch and it threw him, they had a messy break up around a year ago and we're engaged, after 8 years together. She's basically begging for him back.
He told me honestly about their conversation, that he needed closure, felt strong when replying knowing he had a good life now with me.
Although he's been quieter since Saturday he assured me no reason to worry.
This morning I went to work, but had a gut instinct something wasn't right (randomly changed his WhatsApp pic from us to one of him) and my messages weren't delivering. I tried to call, no answer. I txt him to say I was going home early, when I called again he answered, said 'for fuck sake, ok hope you feel better soon.'
Got home an hour later, to be locked out (live in flats with communal entrance) his phone switched off and nowhere to be seen.
I got a neighbour to let me in, he isn't answering his phone, not receiving any messages, has basically vanished. All his things are here.
His smart new clothes he bought the other day have had the tags taken off and left so he's obviously wearing them. But no coat.
I'm thinking the worst. That he's left for good. Maybe being paranoid, but this is all VERY out of character. Never not been able to get hold of him before.
In the interest of not stop feeding, he left his ex one day taking nothing, just walking out, when he heard she had cheated. So he's capable of leaving things behind without second thought. He didn't tell me on the phone he was out but it looks as tho he waited for me to leave for work, got changed and went. Told me he had no plans, what he's making for tea, he was gunna do housework today, blah blah.
Someone talk some sense into me as my instincts are saying the worst has happened and he's gone back to her without so much as a backwards glance. :(