Glad H went, even if it has put his nose out of joint. He wont like someone pointing out (however subtley ? sp) that he is not always in the right.
He must realise that if you have resentment and concerns, you need to talk about it before anything can happen? Oh no sorry, forgot he's a man, and "real" men dont need to talk, do they.
Sorry, slightly bitter there.
Counsellor sounds supportive though. Have you got another session booked?
Oh and the punch bag thing - surely in a really loving relationship (on both sides) that would be accepted as meaning that something needed to be worked on? Man or woman, you cant just pretend that your feelings arent there.
Hope you feel better tomeorrow.