An update on my 'To top off my crap year...' thread

[October]

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Dior, youre too strong to need to do this. G is just out for a laugh, he doesnt mind who that's with.

maybe things are over with DH, maybe theyre not. The counselling will be to help you understand what is going on with each of you, then help you find ways to communicate better - if you want to.

Otherwise thay can help you end it amicably.

Meanwhile, a quickie with someone else isnt going to make your life any easier, you know that.

Easy for me to say, i havent exactly got them lined up waiting for me, but I think Id rather get myself sorted out first, IYKWIM

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i understand that

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i know, so what are your options and what will you decide to do? Because you cant go on like this

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neither of those are an option tho are they?

also, now you have rejected him , is he really likely to consider anything with you, anyway?

so realistically what are your options?

giving it a go with h

ending it with h

deleting g's number

working out trhough relate what you need to do, before making a decision

anymore?

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its the feeling wnated you miss, not g, there are plenty of men who can make you feel like that who are actually worth your time, once you and h have sorted your stuff

nods again at Lou.

and he's got a small pee=pee, remember that.

Oh Dior, I really feel for you.

G can't make the pain go away. Probably the only reason you have these feelings for him is because of the situation at home, but you know that deep down. It's not easy though to take action to change the situation.

Dh just asked me to go an watch 'Have I got news for You' with him (bless) so can't stop but I'll catch up tomorrow. Can I CAT you? My story is probably fairly similar to yours but a bit long and rambly! Take care. You WILL get through this. I did. A long and rocky road (cheese!) but I did it.

actually g is making the pain worse

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he's making it worse because you are still harbouring thoughts about him, he initiated this relationship, therefore making it worse

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get rid of his number

how are you today?

Dior did you get my CAT?

You NEED that book.

Really sorry to hear things are going so downhill.

You are handing over all the power in your life to G - is he really, really worth it? Would he treat it with the respect it deserved, if he knew?

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How wierd, I sent it a week ago! Have sent another, hopefully it will reach you.

Please come on here for a bit of support if you think you're going to give in and text - you'll feel so much worse if you do and he ignores you (believe me I've been there). I know you're feeling like you couldn't get worse, but it would be really, really crap to discover that you could.

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