Grinch I would only wear jeans if I was wearing heels and a very dressy top. I had lunch with a couple of guy friends on the weekend and they both complained about women turning up on dates looking like they didn't care and being overly casual. We're in London though so might be different.
Inexperienced Only staying over if its just sex or if their bag gets stolen but generally if you're staying over you don't care that much about seeing them again. A lot of guys are going to try and charm you into bed - don't fall for it. As far as conversation, I tend to talk about anything and everything (nothing's off the table for me).
My date on Friday we talked about: our families, childhoods, food, films, books, tv, how we ended up in our careers, our kids, our previous relationships, favourite restaurants, politics, where we've travelled, pop culture, mental illness and how annoying our mothers could be.
The pace should be comfortable. If its good I think it feels like you're meeting a friend. Sometimes it feels more like its about being impressive. Remember you are auditioning them as much as they are with you. Be chilled and protect yourself. Don't do or talk about anything you don't want to.
Love WTF. What is he up to? I think I you really need to put on your big girl pants and ask him straight up what's going on and what he wants. You're avoiding the convo but you're not going to get any answers one way or another like that. Otherwise its just torture.
Had an hour long chat with Mr BBC tonight and he had me laughing for most of it. Weds confirmed for dinner and cinema. He made it pretty clear that he had a fab time on Friday and can't wait to see me again, which is actually really bloody lovely!