Being beaten up.
Emotional abuse.
Being called a slut.
Being cheated on.
Everything was always about him and how it affected him.
Him getting with me because I was "young, beautiful and I loved him" cringe!!!
Dumping me when pregnant for religious reasons over me not wanting to get my son christened (I should have never gone back).
Him "trying to make it up to me" (his shit behaviour) by erm, basically ignoring me, head in phone or iPad and going out with his ex missus.
Starting an argument over every discussion then blaming me for it - "why do you always have a go at me?". Urggghhh!!
Criticising me for making "shit meals".
Ignoring the kids by being being buried in the aforementioned iPad and phone.
Leaving the preschool kids outside the bookies unattended whilst he picked up his winnings.
After me buying him a few different items for Christmas and hearing the words "is that it?" when he opened them even though he bought me a 'joke' present and nothing more - that was our first xmas together.
Lacking empathy towards me and the kids.
Walking ahead of me whenever we walked anywhere. He'd even push the pram with our baby son in and walk off and leave me and the oldest DC all the time.
Not listening to me.
Never ever taking the time to get to know me because he was too preoccupied studying stocks and shares all the time that that took precedence over the relationship even in the 'honeymoon phase'.
Telling me he wouldn't marry me if I wouldn't get wed in a church. Or he would have to wait til his mum and dad were dead so they wouldn't have to witness it.
Walking off mid-conversation.
Not communicating anything with me in general. Then when I asked him outright for answers he'd flip at me for not knowing.
Farting with his constant gut rot and always using the same excuse "I've got bad guts" but this was every day!
Blaming everything on anyone but himself. Even when things went wrong at his work he'd blame the customer of his manager.
Telling me he worked harder than me (and seemingly anyone else he knows) so that should give him privileges to sleep whenever he felt like it during the day despite the fact I work a ft job and ran the household/admin stuff too.
Getting drunk at every social gathering leaving me solely in charge of looking after the kids - never offering the same back to me in return.
Touching me in my sleep all the time shudder.
Texting when driving.
Everything you've done, he's done it more times and better too.
Having no awareness of general events and knowledge that I concluded he must have lived in a cave for the majority of his life.
Being patronising and condescending despite the fact he has the IQ of a ham sandwich.
Generally being a self-centred arsehole who thought he was gods gift to mankind.
Wow this was therapeutic. There was sooooo sooooo much more than this but this is stuff the springs to mind.