#3 He IS having an affair

[worldupsidedown]

Ok, here we go for round #3 in which we know DH is having an affair, and does not give a flying fuckof 25 years inc 19 years of marriage or respect for his LW and DD and now we try to establish what the hell thinks he's going to do next and hopefully learn about the YOWHLTF while trying to keep a calm and dignified posture

When you ask him a question, just sit there, don't talk.
If he gives small answers, then say no I need more details
the less you say the more he has too.
He will fill the silences with info.
Are you for real, is a good reply.
Meeting her a few times a week is very different to every night, you see his fun has already gone, the excitement of the cheat makes him look interesting to her, but now she will have him whining about you to him, not sex at all.

Good luck . I suggest just being calm and factual, state your requirements and get the divorce and separation moving asap.

Stay strong OP. We're all rooting for you!

Don't forget to make a meal for 2, something that smells amazing, only 2 lots and get you DD to help you, then sit down and eat it, when he arrives tell him that he isn't welcome, go sit in his room, as your having a nice meal.

I really don't think he's given up on what you had all for 1 shag and 1 dinner ??
It must of been love at first sight. Nooooo

Good luck. X

Mummy2017 lol!😆

Honestly, I thought it stood for Younger Other Woman Who'll Leave The Fucker.

Thing of you World, been there and yes my cheating exH did leave the condom receipt in his wallet too!

Good luck OP, u set the ground rules! X

Hope it is not too awful stay strong

Good luck world!!! 💗

"A friend of mine said her DD refused to have her dad wall her down the aisle at her wedding, because he'd clearly shown he didn't understand the fidelity aspect of the vows by cheating.

She had her Uncle do the honours and her dad was gutted."
Good for her whoever she is. There's a girl that was set some excellent examples! #Firmbutfair

Trains are messed up he's delayed til 930 ish. DD and I just had a little melt down. We're ok now

Good luck for your meeting. I hope you were as strong as you've been sounding on here. Xx

Hope your ok this evening op

Just remember, you don't want to be the one he settled for because of the financial situation!

it's ok to wobble

Hope it goes ok. You will get through this and be OK.

Good luck op .

You've been so strong throughout, you can do this. Remain calm and let the fucker dig his own grave.

Thinking of you OP

Checking in.

Stay strong World. You are doing so well.

Still not home

Thinking of you World. You've got this