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Is he having an affair #2

923 replies

worldupsidedown · 08/08/2017 23:03

Continuing on from 'is he having an affair'

23:03 and still not home.

OP posts:
Cantcatchthechicks · 08/08/2017 23:35

With you all the way xx

Fluerdelea · 08/08/2017 23:36

Save the...Ive been to see a solicitor and DD knows everything till you need them...trump cards

Shankarankalina · 08/08/2017 23:38

Op, so many of us have gone through this or similar. It is an extremely lonely time, but you are not alone.

cailisto · 08/08/2017 23:38

Good luck World.
Remember - you're better than this and you deserve to be treated fairly and not lied to.
Don't let him minimise things or gaslight you.
Don't show all your cards - keep some hidden for when/if you go down the legal route xxxxxxx

KeepCalm · 08/08/2017 23:39

Good grief he has balls I'll give him that

LexieLulu · 08/08/2017 23:39

Good luck OP FlowersFlowers

Gimboid · 08/08/2017 23:39

Good luck Flowers

AnnieAnoniMouse · 08/08/2017 23:40

He's had plenty of time to work out some great stories & plausible reasons for it all.

Guiltypleasures001 · 08/08/2017 23:40

Wishing strength your way lovely 💐

Fluerdelea · 08/08/2017 23:40

Another thing OP if you get a sob story off him or denial ask for his phone although everything will probably be wiped now

twisterinyogapants · 08/08/2017 23:41

Wow you are far stronger than I would have been. I would have blow straight away. I admire you and your strength. Keep your dignity he is the dirt.

CarpeVitam · 08/08/2017 23:41

Thinking of you OP...I hope things go well for you Flowers

TeamCersei · 08/08/2017 23:41

Is there a chance he hasn't even bothered to read your messages?
He sounds shallow and self centered enough to do that.

Its possible he came out from film and quickly fired off the ''I'm delayed'' message without bothering to read any incoming messages.

hoover1234 · 08/08/2017 23:42

I would have ripped him a new a hole by now

pinkoneblueone · 08/08/2017 23:43

Thinking of you, stay strong 💪🏻

MoHunter · 08/08/2017 23:43

Flowers Thinking of you OP, what a nightmare.

worldupsidedown · 08/08/2017 23:45

No other message, if he gets back and is surprised to see me still up, etc then I'd guess he possibly hasn't, then I'll ask him to read my messages properly instead of being to busy messaging her

OP posts:
blankface · 08/08/2017 23:45

Flowers Sending strength and support your way World Flowers

SirVixofVixHall · 08/08/2017 23:46

Good luck World. Stay strong.

helpme85 · 08/08/2017 23:46
Flowers
Haribogirl · 08/08/2017 23:46

No if he doesn't say anything say
Have you read your messages tonight darling

CremeFresh · 08/08/2017 23:46

He must have seen your messages !

Fluerdelea · 08/08/2017 23:46

Was his train delayed OP

KungFuEric · 08/08/2017 23:46

God I'd feel too exhausted at this point to do it all tonight.

Glittermud · 08/08/2017 23:47

Good bloody luck. I'm really sorry that you are going through this.

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