Is he having an affair #2

[worldupsidedown]

Continuing on from 'is he having an affair'

23:03 and still not home.

I don't think you can assume yet that he's not coming home tonight. I wonder if his car is still at the station?

A message! On the way back, Waterloo delays....

Why don't you have a bath and go to bed? Try to sleep. He will either wait until you are asleep or stay away. He knows what's coming and he's not going to face you.

Please do not text...shows panic and weakness and he will act on that. On your part...silence is the best option

Stay strong op. Think of you. He knows he has to face the music sometime soon and he will not be happy about having to finally deal with his mess, whatever his impaired and twisted justifications/thoughts are.

If you go to bed, double lock the doors. You don't want to face him, being woken up at God knows what hour. Just at least for tonight.

Do not teoly to the text....silence he will be shitting himself

He's replied but not addressed the giant fucking elephant in the room?!

You seem very calm. I think you are right not to chase or contact him anymore tonight or ever.

He should come home to you and face the mess he has caused, but I don't think he will tonight.

I hope you are ok.

Don't reply.

Unbelievable response.

Has he read your message?

You've still got almost two hours before you know either way. Another cup of tea?

You have to maintain that strength a bit longer and try and rest. Get rid support tomorrow. You need good rl support.

What a crap response.

He's shitting himself.

Good.

Lie after lie he's late because he's been getting his story right to spin you.

I wouldnt bother.

As much as it would drive me mad (but then I would have hit the roof with just the condoms tbh so wouldnt have handled it well) why give him any notice?

If he turns up tomorrow hand him a packed bag and inform him that you will need his new address in order to serve him with divorce papers. Thats it. No discussion, no excuses just "You made your choice when you didnt come home last night, now I have made mine" and then broken record.

Blimey. Do you know which train that will put him on?

Sorry, real life support I meant.

Don't reply. Don't call. Stay as calm as you possibly, possibly can. You're being very strong.

So it sounds like he's going to try to brazen his way through this ... wow

Just seen he's text you. Very strange to ignore everything. Don't reply.

Can always check if delays so if he's lying about that stupid is also on the list of his negative traits.

I bet he says the condoms arent his just keeping them for a friend

His reply is really bloody odd considering he should have seen your texts. I'm confused/angry for you!