Is he having an affair #2

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Continuing on from 'is he having an affair'

23:03 and still not home.

does he have an iPhone? can you "find" his phone?

Sending strength..💪🏻

Ditto PP - call him.

Hardly a constructive comment fairenuff

Has he read your texts yet (you said earlier they were delivered). I'm so sorry for your pain...some men really are such selfish heartless twats (my ex was sleeping with prostitutes). You are doing bloody amazing... I would have challenged him before now or stalked the cinema like a woman possessed trying to see what the MW looked like. Thinking of you & hoping you get some answers tonight xx

Not tried calling him, I don't want to chase him that way.

I guess if he doesn't come home it tells you all you need to know.

Seems like a total coward. Ringing or rushing home would be the only decent things to do. With you all the way

Also sending strength. Any sign?

you have been so calm op
Have you tried calling his phone? Even from a withheld number?

If he doesn't come home OP then he has told you all you need to know without saying a word! What an utter prick!

Could he be sitting outside in the car afraid to come in?

Wishing you all the best op. You sound amazing and now for this new chapter in your life, I hope you and your dd get the respect and the love ye deserve 😃

I hope this goes well for you OP!

He's an utter coward. So sorry OP. X

The spineless twat. He can't face you and own what he's done. And he's presumably still just thinking of himself, and not what agony you're going through.

Bastard.

What a coward

What a git!!

I could message him in a while. 'You've not come home. That undoubtedly says it all. I will file for divorce tomorrow'

You are very strong OP.
Do you know if it will be 100% over from your POV, when it all comes out?

Has he got a sleeping bag? Because I would leave him one in the garden. .

Do NOT call. You need the upper hand ... silence from you now IS the best solution. He will be working out how and what to do. They think they are so clever like strutting peacocks...not that clever eh OP.

Set yourself a cut off time...if he's not home by 00.40am go to bed. Do not let him put you through anymore stress..you will not sleep but you can rest.

I'm blown away by his selfish cowardly behaviour. I'm afraid I would have to call, but I totally understand where you're coming from OP. Have you got a girlfriend you can talk to? X

He's gone to the apartment?

I wouldn't leave a sleeping bag, I'd leave the yellow pages something heavy keeping the hotels pages open.

Have you had a look at live train info to see if there are any delays to your local station?

This is a long, slow game. Loads will come out (or not) over many months.

Pace yourself.

Maintain your dignity (I did nt) - wishing you some virtual balm to heal the hurt.