Is he having an affair #2

[worldupsidedown]

Continuing on from 'is he having an affair'

23:03 and still not home.

Op I have no advice but I just want to say I admire how dignified you are. I would not be able to behave how you are

Are you married to James May?!

Ahem......www.google.co.uk/search?q=james+may+shirts&client=firefox-b&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ved=0ahUKEwjhj7-lpMvVAhXsC8AKHZ3ODWYQ_AUICigB&biw=1366&bih=698

That is one hideous shirt!

That shirt - just....wow. Has mid-life crisis written all over it!

www.google.co.uk/search?q=james+may+shirts&client=firefox-b&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ved=0ahUKEwjhj7-lpMvVAhXsC8AKHZ3ODWYQ_AUICigB&biw=1366&bih=698

No, thankfully he looks nothing like JMay!

I wonder will he go the full Nicky Haslam?

I've got all the dogs with me now too, he'll miss them

My boy is on his back, legs akimbo snoring

World I have been following your story since the beginning. I haven't posted as there were much more relevant experienced posters that could give more pertinent support to you. Hats off to you, you've handled yourself with dignity. Actually all of you posters that have helped with legal advice and similar stories, you're all brilliant.

However, at this point I have to step in. Who the holy fuck would think that, that shirt outside of a Hawaiian holiday on "wear your crazy shirt night, would think that shirt fulfilled the brief of "luxury" and "trendy"??! Somebody needs to have a sit down chat with this deluded shit bag and simply explain no Your silver lining is that it's not your job to do the "talk", instead you get to watch him squeeze his manly takeaway self into this little number and sashay out the door like the wanker he's proved himself to be. If he turns up in red trendy skinny chinos, shoot him with a nerf gun. In fact shoot him with a nerf gun anyway , it's fun and legal!

Now I am laughing out loud at the thought of his 20-something OW cringeing as he dad dances in that shirt in some Kensal Rise bar. Karma 😎

The shirt is truly awful.

Your having a laugh😂 Pml(pissed myself laughing)

That shirt is very 'Dalston'.
But that's in East London. Just!

You are a strong incredible person

Wishing you all the very best

A lifetime of happiness awaits you now , none of this BS from him

And a skinny, sloe-eyed, scruffy-haired, teenage Dalstonite skater boy might look quite cute in it.

That's the ugliest shirt I've ever seen 😂😂

DH would wear a man city shirt before that and he's a massive 33yr long man utd fan

Thank you all for your support, you are the wind beneath my wings!!

Now I need to sleep 💤

Night night.

G'night World....

I would make sure that that shirt was always washed,ironed and ready to wear!My revenge would simply be him wearing it.
On a serious note he will probably not speak much to DD and certainly not tell her about divorce,reasons.This seems to be another bit of woman's work,along with trying to get him to keep up a relationship with her.
Keep calm and angry,keep making lists and working through them.Open a seperate personal account if you don't have one and put half the money in there.I also agree with squirreling cash away,gives you a buffer that you don't have to declare.
Whoever you use you need to start the separation/divorce now together the finances sorted.
He has said you are a strong woman,let him see it.

Holy Crap! I haven't seen a shirt that hideous since the Disco Days of the 1970s!! All he needs now is some gold chains.

I can recommend a good solicitor but it depends on your location. I am in the South East.

I thought Dr Levy when I saw the shirt choice! This has Mid-life crisis written all over it. My ex decided to take out a loan for 27k for a BMW and bankrupted the family when he hit the mid life crisis stage!

Take cash back out on every shopping purchase. Keep that money safe. That's a really good way to squirrel cash as it can't be seen on a statement.

How are you this morning? Hope you managed to get some sleep.