I am so sorry that it's come to this. The audacity of the wank is unbelievable, who the hell does he think he is?
Take that booking receipt back, girly weekend with your daughter.
Don't go back to the divorce solicitor that you saw; sounded far too flimsy, you want someone on your side, who yes, may cost more, but will screw him for every penny. Do this today.
Unfriend him on fb, wouldn't bother putting notices on there just yet, although in saying that a friend did and she found it very cathartic.
Move all of his belongings into the spare room, you are entitled to your space.
Get your name on docs of importance.
Check out tax credits.
I remember you saying you're starting a course, is this a f/t or p/t, could you get a job in connection to this course?
Most of all, don't tell him what you are doing. I would also be suspect of close friends of his, they may have known all along, giving him an alibi ect.
Tell everyone (including his family) before he gets the chance to swing it his way. In fact, contact his mum today, saying she is more than welcome to still come at the weekend, maybe to tell her son what a fine specimen of a man he's turned into.
Don't for one minute think he's going down quietly, he would have gone to work this morning, panicked but ready to get ppl on his side.
I'm so angry for you, you can do this, it will be bloody hard, but everyone is with you. xx