Mystery earrings

[MarilynMonsoon]

Not sure where else to get advice for this.

DP works away sometimes, we've not had trust issues before and I'm usually happy to wave him off. He was in a hotel for two night midweek this week and nothing out of the ordinary behaviour wise prior to that.

Was going through some of his packing to tidy up/sort laundry - not snooping I have to add, I've never felt he might be doing anything behind my back, but in his wash bag I found a pair of earrings that aren't mine. They are not a gift because I don't have pierced ears.

Since his return he's been affectionate and normal if a bit glued to his phone, but he does a lot of work on it so again not out of the ordinary.

I feel really confused, I've never had a reason not to trust him but I can't shake the sight of those earrings. Returned them to bag but took a pic on my phone. What do I do?

Sorry, very drunk right noe after tonight

Not ok

Not surprised you're drunk I'm so sorry.
How have things been left

Did he tell you then?

I am so sorry Marilyn.

Oh Marilyn I'm so sorry. You don't deserve this. Sending hugs for now.

I'm so sorry OP. Look after and be kind to yourself.

He's left tonight I asked I'm to go

Onconted with recipes a earrings and he just crumbled, it's been going for four months

So sorry for you Marilyn, no one should need to deal with such shit from their 'dp'.

Please get yourself tested for STIs in the near future, sorry if that seems brutal but I don't tend to be very subtle ever, and I've been at the wine.

Oh Marilyn I am so sorry, that is rubbish.

Don't drink any more tonight - you will feel bad in the morning.
Go to bed.

Absolute idiot, he's been doing this under my nose for months I thought we were really good

Yes you trusted him. As you should.

He says this is the first time he's taken her to bed and it was all office hero worship he could.t help himself bc I'm not challenging enough and this office girl was all feisty and independent and completel shit like that

What an eejit. Is he at least contrite?

As my dd once said 'it's a shame I'm not a lesbian, then I don't need to deal with men!'

I'm sorry Marilyn
See if you can get some rest

Ah FFS.

Sorry I know I should not post I'm pissed but don't have anyon e else

Of course you should post

Their first time in bed, despite being involved for 4 months already. Uh huh.

So very sorry, Op. He's whipping out the script.

Hugs for you Marilyn

What happened

When he was out the shower and settle into emails I dangled the earrings into front of him asked who they were he looked gobsmacked. Said he found them in hotel spa and forget to return them. I calld him out, showing him photos f recipes he was furious I'd been throw his stuff, I asked who he'd taken out to champagne dinner and faced with receipts as well he just crumpled didn't even out up dfense