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Mystery earrings

999 replies

MarilynMonsoon · 23/06/2017 13:33

Not sure where else to get advice for this.

DP works away sometimes, we've not had trust issues before and I'm usually happy to wave him off. He was in a hotel for two night midweek this week and nothing out of the ordinary behaviour wise prior to that.

Was going through some of his packing to tidy up/sort laundry - not snooping I have to add, I've never felt he might be doing anything behind my back, but in his wash bag I found a pair of earrings that aren't mine. They are not a gift because I don't have pierced ears.

Since his return he's been affectionate and normal if a bit glued to his phone, but he does a lot of work on it so again not out of the ordinary.

I feel really confused, I've never had a reason not to trust him but I can't shake the sight of those earrings. Returned them to bag but took a pic on my phone. What do I do?

OP posts:
cappy123 · 25/06/2017 17:35

What goes around... What was he thinking? Guarantee the rest he's treated you will haunt him.

cappy123 · 25/06/2017 17:35

the 'way' not 'rest.

Saiman · 25/06/2017 17:36

That explains his rage.

Shame he cant find the balls to mad at the right person. Him.

Imbeingunreasonable · 25/06/2017 17:37

To be fair to Mother Russia, I wouldn't want him either. Maybe he told her she was his womb for rent. He makes diarrhoea look attractive

Easilyflattered · 25/06/2017 17:37

Given how quickly she's dumped him you've got to wonder what he's been telling her all these months, he may have fed her a pack of lies, clearly he's capable of it

QueenLaBeefah · 25/06/2017 17:37

Marilyn - you completely rock. And I'm glad Henry the Oaf got his comeuppance quite so quickly.

Now all he's got is a huge credit card bill and a sore back from sleeping on his friends sofa.

Imbeingunreasonable · 25/06/2017 17:38

Queen - not to mention an all mighty hangover for work in the morning! 😂😂😂

AlternativeTentacle · 25/06/2017 17:39

That didn't take long!

What a knobber.

QueenLaBeefah · 25/06/2017 17:39

Whilst facing all the office gossip. 😂😂

Imbeingunreasonable · 25/06/2017 17:40

You couldn't make it up could you Queen? Least he's got mumsy to pick up the pieces of her poor sons broken morals heart

MarilynMonsoon · 25/06/2017 17:41

Text was from mutual friend who saw them both today, apparently his mate and his gf are anxious to get him out of their place

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Reow · 25/06/2017 17:41

Hahahahaha!!!

😂😂😂😂😂😂

MarilynMonsoon · 25/06/2017 17:42

Although his bestie was also stressing that I didn't need to accommodate him in any way

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Imbeingunreasonable · 25/06/2017 17:42

Fucking priceless!!! 😂

MarilynMonsoon · 25/06/2017 17:42

She doesn't want him.

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Saiman · 25/06/2017 17:42

So no one wants him?

Damn shame that.

originalbiglymavis · 25/06/2017 17:42

Just for the record (and glee of typing it out again), what was the text again?

MarilynMonsoon · 25/06/2017 17:43

I'm getting messaged a bit thick and fast but from what I can gather he turned up at hers yesterday and she froze him out and told him he wasn't supposed to leave me!!

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MarilynMonsoon · 25/06/2017 17:44

DAMN SON

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Imbeingunreasonable · 25/06/2017 17:44

Woah that is beautiful OP, I'm almost crying. Wish someone could have filmed him at that exact moment

user1495484765 · 25/06/2017 17:45

How embarrassing for him. Sniggers.

QueenLaBeefah · 25/06/2017 17:45

Turns out that revenge is a dish best served piping hot. 😂😂

PoorYorick · 25/06/2017 17:47

strums guitar

Oh, flew in from Miami Beach B.O.A.C.
Didn't get to bed last night
On the way the paper bag was on my knee
Man I had a dreadful flight....

Every now and then, the universe aligns and everything falls into place.

YoureAllABunchOfBastards · 25/06/2017 17:47

Ha! Serves the fucker right

Imbeingunreasonable · 25/06/2017 17:47

I've known some fuck-ups in my time but this guy deserves to be crowned king of self-destruction