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Pictures - opinions on these texts please

316 replies

newnamechange84 · 24/05/2017 22:24

Just a small snapshot of what my 'd'p sends his 'friend'. Friend or more? Opinions please - this is a long running problem

Pictures - opinions on these texts please
Pictures - opinions on these texts please
Pictures - opinions on these texts please
OP posts:
isitjustme2017 · 25/05/2017 18:13

What an absolute snake in the grass this man is........

ColourfulOrangex · 25/05/2017 18:14

So the first thing he done was text her? Shock

Brens13 · 25/05/2017 18:27

Well OP I'm pretty sure that's all the evidence you needed that you're doing the right thing! Stay strong and we'll all be here to support you. It will get better, it can only get better!

ohfourfoxache · 25/05/2017 18:30

What a cunt Angry

Right, come on - you're doing this. You're going to be absolutely fine, just stay strong.

What did the tosser say in his message to her?

newnamechange84 · 25/05/2017 18:49

So he just sent her a shot of the message and she said 'wtf' grow up

OP posts:
MrsChopper · 25/05/2017 18:50

Oh tell him to get his stuff and fuck off. What an idiot. You'll be soooo much happier without him!

newnamechange84 · 25/05/2017 18:51

He's telling me that he thought I was the one. Oh my god! He is not real!!!

OP posts:
MyOtherProfile · 25/05/2017 18:52

What did you say to him in your text?

newnamechange84 · 25/05/2017 18:54

My other profile - basically what one of the posters on here said 'you're not the one etc'. I can't do this, I said I loved him and he's broken me and he's saying I've broken him. I hate him ATM so much

OP posts:
MrsChopper · 25/05/2017 18:55

OP, he is playing you both. He was quite happy having 2 women on the go and you've just burst his little bubble. He is a waste of space!

YellowPaisley · 25/05/2017 18:55

Try as much as you can to ignore him.

He's only going to make you feel worse

MyOtherProfile · 25/05/2017 18:56

Did you tell him you know about his messages to the other woman?

DancingGoose · 25/05/2017 18:56

Stop getting caught into a blame game. Stop messaging. No good will come of it

TestTubeTeen · 25/05/2017 18:59

Oh, OP, don't let him mess with you. He texted her, betrayed you by sending messages between you and him to her,

Don't engage. He is lying. There is nothing to discuss. Don't get drawn in. Just say his stuff is ready to collect and there is nothing more to be said.

ALittleMop · 25/05/2017 19:04

Well done for telling him

Hold your nerve

Don't listen to his lies. Block him if you can once you've told him how he can get his belongings.

Give him his ipad back, you don't need to know what he is saying or thinking.
.

His "friend" sounds like she is pissed off with being implicated in your split.

SweetLuck · 25/05/2017 19:04

Stop responding to him now, it just gives him chance to worm back in.

SirRaymondClench · 25/05/2017 19:09

Keep strong OP you're doing great X

newnamechange84 · 25/05/2017 19:10

He's asked if I've been reading his messages. Yes of course I have but I'm not telling you that twatface!!!

OP posts:
PollytheDolly · 25/05/2017 19:12

Good for you OP.

Don't hate him. That implies depth of feeling to him.

BE INDIFFERENT! Flowers

NellieFiveBellies · 25/05/2017 19:12

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Goingtobeawesome · 25/05/2017 19:13

He's thick as well as everything else isn't he? By asking you if you've read his messages he's proving there's something to read..

CiliatedEpithelium · 25/05/2017 19:14

Christ Op, I can't believe what I've read on here! He is happy for you to go on anti-depressents and has gaslighted you to the point where you are mentally ill. What a bastard, seriously you can do better than this complete turd of a man. Let the pair of cheating cunts have each other. They will always know the true nature of the other.

anxiousandpregnant · 25/05/2017 19:19

This guy is unreal! He is most likely feeling rejected and hurt because your the one who's ended things when he probably thought you worshipped him (Ha) but the fact he's gone straight to her speaks volumes. That should be proof alone your doing the right thing. A real man would never say those things or make you feel this way.

ALittleMop · 25/05/2017 19:21

Don't tell him you've been reading his messages!

Let the ipad battery run down and don't re charge it

He's going to go for the I did it because didn't trust me bollocks

TestTubeTeen · 25/05/2017 19:26

Don't engage.
Don't answer any questions, don't argue your point, just convey your decision; his stuff is ready to collect at whatever time.

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