Pictures - opinions on these texts please

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Just a small snapshot of what my 'd'p sends his 'friend'. Friend or more? Opinions please - this is a long running problem

He knows he's doing the wrong thing, or he wouldn't be deleting the messages. He's trying to work out how much you know to try and get out of things and sort out his Disney holiday.

I'm so sorry this is happening to you OP. You deserve better.

He will probably accuse you of cheating next - anything to 'win'.

Don't engage any more. Keep your dignity and your head held high- you have done joking wrong! But keep the screen shots of the messages just in case...

Do not reply! He bloody well knows you've read his messages. Why ask otherwise? He is trying to engage you in a conversation so that he can give you some bullshit excuses and win you round. Don't let him!

OP, you know what he's up to. He's a cheat. Even if he hasn't actually physically cheated on you (which I very, very much doubt, whether it was with "Stace" or someone else) he is only waiting for an opportunity. I know it hurts so bad, but try and see this as a lucky escape. Every day you're with someone like this is another day of your precious life wasted.

If you 'hear him out' then you will either end up being won around by this scumbag so he can keep treating you like shit, or you will still walk away but it will be harder because he will pull at your heart strings. Nothing good can come from talking to him. If you absolutely must talk to him in a few days about living arrangements, finances etc. then keep it direct and cool.

You're doing so well - keep it up OP.

Wtf indeed!

Well done, OP - stay strong.

Just read all the thread. Well done OP. He is a grade A wanker.

Be strong and get yourself in a better place. I bet when you have some time you will realise he was making you unhappy all along.

Well done!!!

Now if you need any more resolve keep
Posting here or reading the texts between the cockwomble and his twat of a 'friend'.

Ahhhh I needed to come back on here! Helps me think I'm doing the right thing. We've been texting all evening, he's been blasé. I've been the one asking why. I just want an answer. My poor baby girl misses him so much 😢

Don't text him. What do you think he's going to say? Is there an answer that he can give that would help? Or satisfy you? I think it'll just hurt more in the long run

Please stop texting him. It will do absolutely no good at all. He is just going to lie through his teeth.

At the very least, stop texting tonight. Re-assess in the morning if you have to. But give yourself some space and time

Ehhh calm down.
What's he saying about it? How can he be blase about saying what he did? Why isn't he grovelling?

Reread the messages that he's sent her. Think about the antidepressants that you take because of his fucking gaslighting and then tell him to fuck right off. And when he's finished fucking off tell him to fuck off again. What a cunt.

I can tell you why. You know why. because he doesn't consider you are 'the one' and he told his scuzzy friend exactly this. Just for that alone I would kick him into touch but for the gaslighting and letting you think you were losing it to the point of medication I would want to rip him ten new sphincters! Get angry and block the bastard. He is a player of the worst sort.

He's lied to you and to her about being a decent human being- why would you let him into her life?

Read the messages again

Read what you have written here

Imagine it's your best friend writing the words you have written

And then perhaps you'll get as cross as we are for you, for yourself.

Is he still texting her?

Talk to us lovely, we're here and we are all on your team!!

He turned up at the house to collect the stuff I'd chucked outside. Kept texting about his uniform but I ignored it. Don't know what he'll wear to work tomorrow now. This hurts badly. I want to know why he kept texting her? Why he still is now. My poor girl. I feel like my heart is breaking but she's three. He was like a daddy to her and she is going to miss him so much.

I know, it's so difficult. Especially when you've tried to trust someone against you're own judgement previously. Makes it even worse for some reason.

Try asking yourself, would you be happy if your daughter was in a relationship with a man who was like this when she's older? Would it be good enough for her?

your. not you're 😡

This is not your fault.

He did this, not you.

You need to concentrate on you and your darling girl now

What else has he texted her today?

I'm so sorry that you're going through this. You and your children.

He turned up at the house to collect the stuff I'd chucked outside. Kept texting about his uniform but I ignored it. Don't know what he'll wear to work tomorrow now. This hurts badly. I want to know why he kept texting her? Why he still is now. My poor girl. I feel like my heart is breaking but she's three. He was like a daddy to her and she is going to miss him so much.

Hey! Stop that. You're better than this. This is HIS doing. He's the one to feel bad, not you.

He can go to work in his Y fronts. Fuck him.