All these gardening snippets ☺.
No more rain needed here for a while, and the forecast is beautiful.
Hugs to Juan, do what you need to get through each day.
Yesterday it was 2 months since John died.
I had a reasonable day, work was fine, mon-night friend popped round for a chat on her way home from work, I made and ate decent food instead of snacking, but my boys were with their dad - and I was lonely.
I've been looking at meetup and other sites for local things I could get involved with, I'm just not sure I've got the energy to do so at the moment.
It's my birthday at the weekend, I'll be 45. Our family has always said "half way to 90", and I can remember saying it to John (a number of years before we got together) on his 45th. I can just see him, standing at the office water cooler, as I walked past (aged 31 and thinking 45 was old) and casually mentioned it, and his face dropped. I'm pretty sure he'd have taken reaching 90 over dying at 58.
We also say, when people moan about the aches, pains and difficulties of age "it's better that the alternative". How true.
So my friend has been asking what we should do for my birthday. At first I though nothing. But then I though well something is better than nothing, so 4 of us are going out for a meal.
I didn't do anything last year, John was a day out of hospital having had a crisis then 1st chemo, and he was pretty unwell. My youngest son brought a box of my favourite chocolates and gave them to John to give to me because he knew he wouldn't have been able to sort anything. John said he'd like to get me some diamond earrings, and said we should go shopping when he felt a bit better - we did other things when he felt a bit better and we then said about getting them for Christmas, but he again wasn't well - this time post radiotherapy. We were going to go shopping for them in the new year, instead we found out his cancer had spread. I thought about buying some myself, but it's not the same. Maybe next year.
I'm getting on with things, I'm moving through life, but I miss John so much.