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Original poster

Liar liar bums on fire.

111 replies

Hesabawbag · 07/05/2017 00:13

Thought I'd start a thread to pull tips on dealing with your gut instincts versus the crap that's spouted on discovering infidelity. So basically cues we get when we just know its bs.
Starting of with the same minimal repeated 5 word sentence that's. Never deviated from.

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AtticusCactus · 07/05/2017 01:52

Oh I suppose it's alright for you to talk to Kevin/Bob/Dave though?

NurseButtercup · 07/05/2017 01:52

It's all in your mind, your overreacting

and

She's my cousin, she's family how could you think that

Lemonnaise · 07/05/2017 01:55

It was only the once.

Original poster
Hesabawbag · 07/05/2017 01:57

Your making it up in your head, when in fact their making so much up that they have to convince you that your the crazy one because the stress of maintaining the lie turns them into nasty fuckers.

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PyongyangKipperbang · 07/05/2017 01:58

I didnt tell you because I knew you would over react

You are paranoid

You are nuts

Why do you make this shit up?

Its not what you think.

If you had been.....

If you hadnt been......

If we had more sex then......

Snailfoot · 07/05/2017 01:59

You need to chill out.

And the one I got once - I needed to sleep with her to know if I was really gay or it was just you.

Although, to be fair, he has since come out ...

PyongyangKipperbang · 07/05/2017 01:59

Mine cheerfully saw me taking antidepressants I didnt need during pregnancy rather than admit that I wasnt mentally ill and severely paranoid and that he was in fact a cheating cunt.

AnnieAnoniMouse · 07/05/2017 01:59

FFS you're paranoid!

Who? HER? You have to be fucking joking, give me some credit!

pnutter · 07/05/2017 02:00

She's not my type

Original poster
Hesabawbag · 07/05/2017 02:04

I'm. Human!
Yes, but I'm human too, what happened to being a decent human you jumped me into thinking you were.

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Original poster
Hesabawbag · 07/05/2017 02:05

Juped. Hmm

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Original poster
Hesabawbag · 07/05/2017 02:18

I think we need to set some rules.... 😂

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optionalrationale · 07/05/2017 02:20

Just curious. Are you deliberately saying juped when you know it is actually duped for a particular purpose that I am missing?
Also Liar not Lier

Original poster
Hesabawbag · 07/05/2017 02:54

Optionaltational you are right to point that out, only excuse is time of night and phone doesn't do spell check. Title could be rubbish pun though Grinat myself.

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PyongyangKipperbang · 07/05/2017 04:10

Do you know the least classy thing a person can do Optional?

I am sure that someone of your intelligence can work it out......

abbey44 · 07/05/2017 04:14

I think you'll find it doesn't count if you've paid for it... Hmm

BlueChairs · 07/05/2017 04:16

I'm really sorry about this but ... liar*

PyongyangKipperbang · 07/05/2017 04:20

If you were really sorry then you wouldnt have mentioned it Blue

If you were really nice then you wouldnt have mentioned it.

Sometimes people post on MN when English isnt their first language, or when they have dyslexia or when they just plain cant spell! A family member of mine is a highly respected professional in her field world wide, but she cant spell worth a damn. I am bloody sure that if she posted here with her professional title and the letters after her name then no one would correct her spelling.

As my granny said "If you cant find anything nice to say then dont say anything at all".

CherylVole · 07/05/2017 04:36

Tbh liar. Annoyed me too. Not sorry.

lifesjoys · 07/05/2017 04:45

We all know what it's supposed to say, so who gives a shite??

It's deviating from what the thread actually is about!

Unicornsandrainbows3 · 07/05/2017 05:17

She means nothing to me
You're crazy, she's a whiney bitch!
You're paranoid
It was only once
It was only sex, I love you not her
I'm so sorry
It will never happen again
She came on to to me, I didn't want it
It was only chat, nothing happened
It's because you never pay any attention to me
You don't get it. Men need sex

tabbykitt · 07/05/2017 07:26

She's just a great friend.
You are mentally ill.
You deserve better than me.
Well you got fat.

tabbykitt · 07/05/2017 07:28

I can't cut contact with her because:
she might kill you/me/herself.
that would be rude.
if you leave me, who will make my tea?

LedaP · 07/05/2017 07:36

I was just being friendly, she took it the wrong way and is now obsessed. She is a psycho.

You are a psycho

I just got carried away

I didnt mean for it to happen, it just escalated even thought i lied about where i was and booked a hotel room and took her away

She isnt like you. She needs me for support. She isnt strong like you

Or

She isnt weak like you and i found thay attractive. She doesnt need me, she is so strong

inaclearingstandsaboxer · 07/05/2017 08:37

I didn't know who she was ( when I found out he had whacked up with my best mates cousin - yes love, the one you shared, with me, a table at her wedding. And the one who you got lifts from and gave lifts to for a year before you left me. You say you didn't leave me and our children for her but it's a bloody coincidence isn't it - but hey ho I am stupid and paranoid...

And you my dear are a lying cheating cunt