I too, am an escort/ sex worker/prostitute, call it what you will. In between working a totally different professional job. I do both my jobs because I enjoy doing them. I am also registered as a sex worker and pay tax on my income from both jobs. I am also female :)
I have never been threatened, forced or persuaded to do a single service I do not wish to. I am not trafficked nor do I work from a brothel or on the streets. I am a strong woman who takes no nonsense from any man or woman. I do not take drugs either.
Sex work is most definitely a job to me, once I close the bedroom door, I forget about the job, until the next booking. There are also jobs I could not do, such as carer, cleaner,undertaker, mortician. They would totally freak me out. However I respect anyone's choice to do whatever job they choose and I have no right to criticize them for their choices.
I practise safe sex totally, condoms are used with every service, no CIM is allowed, clean towels, bedding for each client and all MUST shower at my place before they get any service on offer.I supply shower gels, mouthwashes, deodorants. If a client refuses they can leave, without a refund as they have read my profile and know what to expect.
I get blood tests, mouth, throat swabs and gynae swabs done monthly and the clinic knows exactly what I do for a living. The gynae swabs are just for my own peace of mind, they are not needed if you don't practise unprotected sex. I keep a list and number for all my clients on the date they arrived, any issues are noted and I refuse to see them again, if I am in any way unhappy.
There are men who come to me that are married, single, divorced, clergy, police, doctors, accountants, students, young and old - wrinkly included lol and all inbetween. I only see white males, and yes this is highly racist but no foreigners as they are the worst for not respecting your boundaries and disrespecting you. They also prefer unprotected sex.
My rules are simple - I demand and get respect and a clean body to work on..It is not all about the sex either, some men are brutal in bed, some amazing, some want to learn new things ( if I offer them that is), some want to talk, some just need to escape for an hour from whatever is troubling them.
The body image is not one I am concerned about, they can be fat, slim, chubby, fit, athletic, wrinkly, there is no body I have not seen, and no body that bothers me either. And once you have seen a penis, sure they all look very alike lol.
I have had many many satisfying encounters with clients and many disappointing ones also with both clients and partners. I am not a perfect model sized body and never will be, I have lumps, bumps, saggy boobs, cellulite and so do many of my clients. I am a normal human being, and so are they.
However yes, I do agree that anyone being trafficked, forced or coerced into doing this job against their wills should be helped escape and their captors or pimps should be jailed for many many years. No one should benefit on the backs of others by forcing them to do a job.
Please don't judge us because we have made up our minds to be sex workers of our own free will, however by all means help us to help the ladies/girls who actually need our help to escape a world they do not wish to be part of...Do not confuse the two,otherwise lines get blurred and people slip between the gaps when they require assistance.
My family and friends all know what I work as - in both jobs.
As for whether my daughter would want to do this job, like myself she is a strong minded individual adult, and if she said she wanted to escort, than I would give her all the advice she needed to be safe and decide if the job was for her. If it was, then that is totally her choice, if not I too would respect her decision.
But having worked in a profession ( other job) where women are treated like shit by so called professional men, just because they class us as lesser beings, then I know which job I prefer doing.
I will be very honest and say yes I do this mostly for the money, but I also get a kick out of meeting strangers, putting them at their ease, making them laugh and making both them and I happy.
I would far prefer my partner, when I have one, to see an escort over having an affair with the barmaid from the local pub, or some girl he met in a bar.
For starters, there is no emotional entanglement, there is less risk of catching a disease as most escorts practise safe sex and there is next to no risk of an escort following him home and attempting to blackmail him, or tell his wife about his night of fun....
One thing I say to all my clients in the bedroom - this is an hour of fun, it is not meant to leave you with any unwanted diseases or destroy anyone lives, be it their's, a partner's or mine. I want them to leave with only happy memories and I will never contact anyone outside of a booking unless they contact me first.