Hi
Having struggled through huge problems, which culminated in me leaving him and taking the DC with me,I came back to give it another go. Things aren't good. And now, DH has set up a website for people to contact other people for extra marital, no strings attached sex! He wanted me to run it, and when I said not a chance, he got annoyed and said he would do it himself. His idea is that, in the beginning, until he has a list of male and female contacts, he will pose as lots of different men, and I would pose as lots of different women, and 'cyber sex' with them via e mail!!!! Then if they asked to meet up make up an excuse and cry off! As if this wasn't disrespectful enough to me, he spent all of the weekend loking at porn sites 'for research', in the living room, in front of me and DD, who is 2. She could clearly see the pictures of oral/anal/lesbian acts etc...when I went ballistic he said she wouldn't understand and wouldn't take any notice anyway!!!!! I don't have a problem with porn as such, but it has it's time and place. I am furious that he could access that while our daughter was standing next to him. he wants to 'cater' for all tastes and persuasions...wanted to take a photo of my feet to put on there for foot fetishists!!!! All of this has been set up without discussion. To make matters worse, Social Services are involved (from a distance) over previous problems and they would go mental of they got wind of this but he just can't see it. I can't even bear to be in the same room as him anymore...he turns my stomach. Basically he is giving himself a green light to cyber with loads of different women under my nose, in my living room, in the name of business.