Just found this FB message exchange between Dh and a woman, not sure what to think?

[HuskyLover1]

Message was in July:
Him: Thanks don't think it was up long
Her: Sorry, it was a mistake. Only meant to send the pic to you. Won't bother you again
Him: Don't be silly. I wasn't bothered by it. You don't have to be like that. What happened in your marriage?
Her: Ok, sorry again for shocking you. I'm still married but it's not the best. I feel very unloved and have done for years. It will be our 9th wedding anniversary on 20th July. I want to enjoy my life with someone who loves me for who I am and wants to spend time with me. Hope you are happy.
Him: Not shocking. Good pic actually. Didn't want my wife to see it and put 2 and 2 together. I'm so sorry that hasn't worked out for you. You moved out or are yu going to get a divorce?
Her:No I'm very scared. How long have you been married?
Him: Scared of what? I've been married years.
Her: I'm scared to leave and be on my own. Hate life at the moment. How did you meet?
Him: You'll be ok I'm sure. You have a lot on your plate. I met Husky on POF.
Her: POF?
Him: Plenty of fish
Her: Where is Husky from? Hows life Hows work?
Him: Tells her where we live

^^ this was all in July

Then last night he sends her a message saying "how are you"

God tell me what to think about this :-(

I'd be clueless. I'm very bad at spotting when people are more interested than they should be, iyswim. And I'm not male either.

Glad you've had a chat with him, Husky - sounds like he did everything with the best intentions and it's all been a bit of a storm in a teacup, but has had the positive effect of helping you to put more of your past (and your ex) behind you.

I'm really pleased to read your latest update OP. It seems that you've really got something out of this situation - although you would of course never want for another woman to be contacting your DH, it did set the wheels in motion for you to have a conversation with DH which has then given you some insight into your own behaviour. I hope you're able to put this behind you and try to put the previous betrayals behind you too. I'm not saying your DH is perfect (I don't know, he might be) but he had an opportunity there in his lap and he didn't take it. Not only that but he didn't even see it as an opportunity which shows how closed off to the idea he is.