No I don't think they do. In fact I'm pretty certain they don't very often.
But I'm also fairly sure that 99% of men don't go on a first date, look at their phone the whole time, seem generally disinterested and say 'thanks but no thanks' and expect the woman to pay for the date.
That hasn't happened to me very often, only a couple of times, but it's happened. A woman is funny and interesting until you actually ask her to meet, at which point she just starts talking about amazing places she's heard of but never been to, which are generally fairly exclusive and pricey
To answer your question, though, no, it's rare if a woman has disappeared after sex. Sometimes it was awkward for both of us (that one who cried unexpectedly, that one who called me by her husbands name) other times it seemed to be great until they.. Just disappeared.
But it's more common for men to do that. And that's because it's job done. Prize won. They've seen you as a goal to be achieved rather than as a potential partner. And they're good at charming you, and women generally want to be charmed.
I'm charming. I'm funny, quite often. I'm not bad looking and earn a decent wage and drive a decent car and I have all my own teeth. And I know if I want a quick shag I can get one. But then I'd lose all interest and move on, hunting for the perfect woman. What I actually want is to meet the right woman, or at least someone who makes me happy, and to be happy with them.
I don't want to disappear on someone. I want to meet someone who's too good to let out of my life.
Problem is, it's difficult to meet that person