He's left hand holding needeed

[Alfiemoon1]

Ok so I posted before the thread about making a tit out of myself. Things have continued I get stressed and have a go every time she texts and start the whole argument over again he got naffed off last night and left. He's not come back yet. I am probably being paranoid I just can't help going into a rage every time she texts help. I have recently gone on the mini pill can that screw your head up I have never been a jealous person

No he is a hgv driver who works permanent nights he starts at 12 am and used to like me to stay up til he went to work not that he spoke to me but it's a bit of a killer every night when u are up at 6.30 to get the kids up for school

Well that is a massive bonus, next stop the local solicitors ... Again strike whilst the iron is hot, it gets worse

I have no idea what the hell you are on about 

Thank god, thought it was just me

Time to stop contacting him. Get on with what you need to do. If he wants to see his kids he can make contact. Right now your messages are feeding his ego.

I wonder if a text to you from a man saying your naughty. .. or with a pic of him even with clothes would be okay with him.

Don't even think about begging pleading or apologising to him. He was out of line and V, sending flirty messages to him is no better ... but it's him you need to concern yourself with.

Your DS can call his dad can't he?

Keep your head up. Keep your make up on and don't let him drag you down.

From what you've said ... it's already an emotional affair. .. or at least it's in the making.

Ds can call him but hasn't dd is texting him then deleting their conversations that's fine I won't be texting him again. Today I have functioned been to work make up on and has been a normal day. The thought of telling people in rl terrifies me as it's all well he said that and did this and seems crazy. I do have a ton of other shit on him but I've kept it a secret from family and friends so long it's hard. The thought of contacting solicitors and tax credits etc just seems daunting at the moment

Sandy he nearly knocked his colleague out for sending me a drunken suggestive text I have never met this man don't know where he lives and I deleted and blocked his no.and I told him about the text in the first place
Where as dh sees v regularly at the yard has been to her house and has been secretive about texts etc blah blah
Yet according to dh it is totally different I have no right to be pissed off????

Dd has finally stopped with her comments of dad loves u he wants to come home he will call u / come round we have had a normal evening without mentioning it / him out of both my kids it's dd that concerns me most as she stresses and she is doing her GCSEs this year

Had a routine checkup at the dr regarding my pill today oh the irony as I won't be needing contraception in a long time decided to continue to take it as I think I am peri menopausal and have been struggling. Mentioned my low mood and the fact I have felt I am struggling so I am back on anti depressants wiii take them but have a feeling my depression will lift when I get rid of dh. I am not a housekeeper childminder etc those flirty text messages should of been sent to me

Still nothing from him although he told dd he will see them tomorrow when he's off and take her to do the horse. Which is good as I am working. Find it pathetic he can't even text me about the kids arrangements he knows I work Wednesday and would have to ask my sister to have the kids if he wasn't off

He won't message you re arrangements as he is still punishing you.

You are doing great, hang in there. Tell DD not to worry about the two of you, you are both adults and will sort out what is best in time. Tell her she should only worry about herself.

Spot on ^^^ Dobby

really not had a good day today nothing to do with him started at 6.30 am with next doors dog in my garden as a fence panel was down so chasing both dogs in my pj ds then missed the bus home his friends mum offered a lift but they went off to the shop dd had a riding lesson booked so I was late to meet her when I get there the teacher was already there and she hasn't even brought the horse in by which time it had started raining so the lesson had to be cancelled as the horse was wet give me strength

Oh dear, sometimes days just don't improve. Well you are in now and the horrid day is over, have something nice for dinner and a long soak in the bath.

Had a nice hot bath was nice to be able to go into my room and dry my hair lol. The simple pleasures of not having a night worker in the house

I'm so glad you stepped away from that Hoover Alfie.

He's having the kids for a bit tonight and meeting dd at the yard have left their change of clothes and a few bits of his stuff I have found in the porch for him to collect. I've still had no contact from him this was arranged by dd. I am proud of myself I haven't text him either recently. Nearly made it through the first week of him leaving

He just picked the stuff up and left didn't come in phew

I am confused he's taken the kids stuff but not his stuff. Pj dressing gown belt etc

Curious to know what user put and why it was removed

User trolled lots of posts last night and today.

Just picked the kids up from his mums he had give them chippy for tea and bought me something how odd

Maybe he thinks you have been punished enough......

Next he will be wanting to come back, hence why he left his belongings.

You know where the bloke fucks up and sends flowers?

Personally I think that he thinks he has punished you enough with his ignoring so now is the time for him to gracefully accept your desperation to have him back because he gives you a gift.

Because a gift makes everything alright and back to normal...

It doesn't address any of the underlying issues in the slightest.

Well he won't be happy that I sent his stuff round for him lol