I can't think straight. DP and I separated a few months ago after he admitted he had been having an 8 month affair.
We started talking again, he stopped seeing OW about a month ago and we were tentatively discussing a way to maybe move forward with our relationship. We have a 3 year old DS and had been together for 13 years.
She contacted him 2 days ago saying she was miscarrying his baby. He has only just told me (in front of our DS).
I've walked out the room and shut myself upstairs. He is angry at me as he says it's hard for him, that he told me as he needed friendly support!
He just came upstairs. I told him I dont think she was ever pregnant, she posts her whole life on Instagram and only yesterday was she arranging to go out clubbing this weekend.
She is 12 years younger than us and plays ridiculous games on social media and she basically taunted me when He left me for her.
I know it's bad but I told him if it is true then I can't support him in his sadness and that if I'm honest, I'm glad she miscarried. I know that's horrid, but he has put me through hell for so long. I've worked so hard at recovering myself from the damage he caused by the affair, with him rubbing her in my face when he left and publicly humiliatin me, I can't believe that he nearly just had a child with her.
I feel terrible having these thoughts but I dont know what to say or do. I feel sick.